GLAM & FAB TOUR - MEMBERS MEETING POINT!!!

[Ifonlyhewould]

Hi Ladies

Hope you don't mind, ive started this thread to save hijacking the thread of others.

I thought we could use it to attract attention of the other members if needed or whatever

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I totally agree. Tho did find 'yo-yo knickered hound' amusing tho......... Should I be ashamed?

ernest

Hi Dior - think I'm just managing to accept things and find the positives in my baby and the good things in my life for now... fed up of all the faces - need many more on here! Hope you're ok? xx

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Dior I think your situation is very unique and nobody could ever judge you as they haven't lived in your shoes! The point is also that you never actually did anything and in your circumstances could never be blamed for enjoying the attention. In the midst of all of this I can say that the first time a bloke even smiles at me I will probably crumble!

Perhaps the personal insults to DT are what is most difficult to read. And on here I do think we should try not to get that personal, as even if we have met other posters, we don't know them and therefore cannot judge.

From everything I've seen of you, you are a loving, warm and compassionate person who has been through a lot. Everyone makes mistakes or errors of judgement. We're all only human after all! It's how we deal with them and learn from them that matters

'crumble'... not as in 'fall into bed with them'...

as in... cry my eyes out in disbelief and happiness that someone has even noticed I exist!!

(just to clear that up!!)

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well i put my 2p in on the DT thread.

refrained from personal insult but did tell her i hope she has her heart utterly broken one day by someone doing the same thing to her.

stupid and selfish. maybe she's got high testosterone levels that make her behave like a bloke!

oh and i think i've figured out my puter probs and may well have got yahoo and msn up n running again.

altho that may all go to pot as i'm not finished messing with it's head yet!

good old symantec and their registry keys. more stalking power than any of the bunny boilers we've all had to deal with!

is no one gonna tell me about how msn works, how to get on it etc etc????????????

Dior, sweetheart, you and dt are in a totally different catagory. The point is a. she knows he's married, b. she does not care, c. she feels no remorse, d. she bragging and making a joke about it.

You are also in a terribly, albeit different situation and have behaved with compasiion and dignity. You are conscious of the issues, and are kind and sensitive.

No hair shirt necessary.

was thinking of you yesterday - remember you saying you lost loads of weight and put it back on. Snap Must go on diet. groan. My problem is I can be 'good' and eat healthily no prob. But then a holiday comes, (ie all inclusive Austria) it all goes to pot for the holiday, but then after the holiday, I just keep on, an on, and on SO I also lost loads and have now put loads back on. Annoying isn't it? But bloody horrid of your dh to make negative comments. Bloody hell, I can't get over how much my dh has hurt me, but then I read stuff on here, and come away thinking he isn't so bad!!!!!!

Someone slap me.

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Now make me do some housework, instead of sitting reading bun fights on here and getting a sore bum

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done- but no cheating, ok?

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ernest, go to www.msn.co.uk and download messenger or go to www.yahoo.co.uk and download the yahoo messenger. it's dead easy.

still happy to host on the friday night here. you'll have to draw straws for the single beds/sofa bed and bring your ready bed if you end up on the floor LOL!

finally i've just been able to redeem the itunes voucher that MIL gave me for xmas!!

now, firstly what should I download? am considering some Arcade Fire stuff.

secondly, do i text her and thank her (again) for the gift and take the opportunity to pass on some venom to H? along the lines of "so, what do you think about your lovely son's complete lack of communication with his wife and child for the last 5 weeks?"

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I'd get in touch with MIL pc. It worked wonders for me last night. And I think it's a good idea to get the point across that he hasn't contacted you for 5 weeks even to ask about his daughter... Let alone to ask how you are!

i guess i'm afraid she's going to tell me something i don't want to hear - like she has no idea where he is or something.

also afraid that if she does tell me something awful then i will really lose the plot.

i know i'm burying my head in the sand but with everything else that's going on i just don't feel strong enough to go back into the fray as it were.

i think about texting her constantly. but she's the sort whu buries her head in the sand and won't confront him about his behaviour. and she's lied to me in the past tho she swears she won't ever do that again i can hardly trust her not to anymore.

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nope, he has few friends and afaik hasn't told them about this. his work still think he's mr family man as well afaik

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again afaik he's still at work. he still pays me the agreed amount so i guess he must have some income.

at xmas 2005 he went to his mums and has bounced around from there. sometimes stays with a mate from work if it's been a late one or checks himself into cheap b&b/hotel places.

all in his garbo-esque quest to be alone.....

his mum says he's never unpacked. just lives out of a holdall but has pics of me and dd by his bed etc.