Boyfriend's female friends of facebook... would you contact them?

[catbasilio]

Would you contact a boyfriend's female 'friend' on facebook if the number of increased likes between them would start to bother you?
I do have some worries that my boyfriend might be a bit of a player, but have no hard evidence. It is not really a friend - it is an ex of his male friend, he said she befriended him (I somehow think it might be opposite) few months ago, to my knowledge they have never met, but she started instantly liking his posts and he likes hers (see that from few public posts).

I just want to ask, if there is something, as his girlfriend, I need to know, as I might be worrying over nothing.

There is a lot of dignity to swallow.
I had contacted one of his FB "friends" in the past and he appeared to be seeking slightly inappropriate flirt although it was early days in our relationship. Some other female friends, including one of his ex, seem ok and nothing to worry about it.

Offer to meet her round the bins at school and knock her out OP.

Why are you with him if he lies to you and you don't trust him?

Ha ha. You sound like a loon. Of course you can' t do this!

“PrimalLady

Offer to meet her round the bins at school and knock her out OP”

OMG that made me laugh

Only if you want to make yourself sound like a controlling fruit loop.

You do really need to think about how you're making yourself look if you do this....it's not great.

If anything, just ask him. Say you've noticed it casually.

However I think you need to look deeper into this. There's a massive trust issue here. No point being with someone if you don't trust them.

However I do understand how it makes you feel. It's just important that you don't make yourself look like a complete knob whilst figuring it out.

regina

Please dont do this.
Its him you have the issue with, have it out with him.
You just stand to come across as completely unhinged if you start contacting people over facebook likes.
I had a boyfriend do this to me actually. Tell one of my one of my male friends to stop 'liking' my posts because it was not appropriate.
I was livid when I found out and dumped him. Such controlling and invasive behaviour.

If you think your boyfriend is cheating and you dont trust him then break up with him and find someone you do trust. Dont start contacting random women as though they can do something. They cant. Them stopping liking your boyfriends posts is not going to stop him being a liar and a cheat if he is one.

She moved out abruptly and then pestered him for money to set her up.

That sounds dodgy as fuck. Why would she feel he owed her that? Perhaps I'm reading too much into that.

Oh OP. Why do you have so little respect for yourself? You should be with a partner who makes you feel relaxed, secure and happy.

Why are you settling for this? You are worth so much more.