Margo and pudding you are both right, it isn't!! But I am a massive over thinker. I just find it so strange that we had such a lovely time, he's still messaging very enthusiastically with long messages etc but no making plans. I don't even mind if they aren't right now, I just want to know we aren't just pen pals!
Vet he hasn't so much said that, just said some girls after first dates had got possessive and needy. At the time, I assumed he just meant some of what I had dealt with - getting angry if there aren't immediate texts back and wanting to see each other instantly and being angry if it's not possible. But now I've seen how he hasn't mentioned the second date, I'm starting to wonder whether that's what it is. Glad to hear it's normal to want to discuss this though!!
Eating that is awful!! Do you know if they're separated and just living together or is he wanting an affair? (Although to be honest it's hard to know the difference really, it would be better if he'd laid off OLD until they at least aren't leaving together!). What a shame.
Last we have been messaging to and fro since the date, initiated by him. I haven't mentioned the date yet. I'm not sure how to work it in. Bloody hell, I can't believe they stood you up when you only made arrangements this morning!! That is horrendous behaviour, I hope you're ok. It's almost like it's a kick, like you say.
BeenThere that thought did cross my mind. And i think the best way to find that out is probably to just ask and see his response. If he disappears, then what you're saying is clearly the case, and it's no loss.
Oh blehhhh, I hate dating!!