Should I presume date is still on?

[lnging]

So we arranged dare Monday night (day time place etc)

Yesterday we exchanged 2 messages in morning and his last one was just saying restaurant we are going to has "steak &lobster Wednesday" and was I ok with that? Responded "it sounded great"

Haven't heard since which is fine don't want to chat to much before date.

So today's date night and heard nothing, should I presume it's still on or should I be waiting for/sending confirmation text?

Would you just arrive at arranged time without confirmation

OP, if you go I hope he turns up and you have a lovely night!

If he cannot be bothered to read and reply to your text I would not give him the time of day. You are worth more, he should be checking if you are still up for the date , not the other way around.

This for me too.

I am visualising the OP sitting in the pub waiting (with 107 angry Mumsnetters by her side)

That's the sort of text I would reply to? Sounds like a non starter and he's rude.

I hope to god she's gone and enjoyed her meal and wine if I had a baby sitter booked and single my ass would be out the door if he shows or not girl needs a break x

Well it’s 19:03.......

Hope he’s there op!

I hope OP didn't waste her time and go.

UPDATE!!

I'm here in car park, only small car park and he's not in car or waiting outside, will give it a few minutes to see if he texts to see where I am

Update OP! Did he show up?

Oh the outfit together

At the very least I hope she is tucking in to steak and lobster.

Thinking of you OP!

I'm glad you went. I would've given him the benefit of the doubt. He might not have travelled by car. I'd go in and check if I were you.

You look hot OP!! 🔥🔥🔥

You look fab - love those boots!

You look fabulous OP!! Even if he's not there I'm sure you'll catch a few eyes ;)

That's a lovely outfit. If he doesn't turn up, go somewhere nice and treat yourself the way you would like to be treated.

He's missing out! You look amazing!

Go in and have a look - he might be sitting inside waiting for you with a bottle of champagne....

Go inside and have an awesome meal whilst looking nonchalantly at your phone and let people marvel about the gorgeous confident mystery woman on the next table 😊I'm over the moon you've gone, if he doesn't show so what. Nobody died and you had a night to yourself.

All the miseries on here need to give over. It's not life and death!

Feel confident as you look gorgeous!

You look unreal. Definitely go in and Have a meal!

Was just commenting to echo other posters - you look amazing!! If he doesn't show then more fool him!!