My husband has died

[Darnley]

So numb, don't believe it. He was my rock.
I have support, but they are not here now, and I know they have lives and are dealing with their own grief. Just want to indulge in some self pity I think...

So sorry, mo lovely. Feel free to talk to us here about anything. X

So sorry for your loss OP. Look after yourself

Sorry 💐

I’m so sorry for your loss 💐

I'm so sorry keep commenting here if you need support I can stay up all night replying xx

So sorry for your loss

So very sorry for your loss 💐

so sad x big hug op

I am so sorry for your loss.

So, so sorry for your loss.

I am so sorry for your loss. He sounds a lot like my late husband who was such fun and has proved irreplaceable. Also let down by his big heart..

How old was he? Do you have children?

I’m so sorry Darnley ... words seem inadequate.

Oh love, I'm so sorry {hug}

Make a cuppa and share some memories if you feel like it, when did you meet?

Oh no - I'm so sorry for your loss.

What a shock for you - please keep talking, we are all here, listening, supporting if you need us to.

xxxxxxxxxxxx

hi Darnley.

Indulge in all the self-pity that you need to if it goes even some tiny fraction of the way to helping you through an awful time.

OP, there are no words...I just wanted to extend my sincerest condolences for your terrible loss...he sounds utterly marvellous from your description. Unmumsnetty hugs from me

So sorry, so so sorry. Cannot imagine life without my Dh, so sorry for your loss, he sounds superb.

Sorry for your loss, he sounds a wonderful man 💐

So sorry Darnley, say what ever you want.......

So sorry. Just coming up to 2 years for me. It may not seem like it at the moment, but it does get better eventually

The first couple of weeks will be awful, but, slowly every day will get a little better. Some way ahead is the place where you can 'weep not that he is dead, smile because he lived' but it will take time to get there.
Lean on everyone around who offers support, be very kind to yourself.
Sending kind thoughts and sympathy.

I'm so sorry to hear of your heartbreaking loss. It's important that you grieve in the way you need to, not in the way you think others will expect you too. Your husband sounds like a wonderful man

So very sorry

I am so sorry.

It isn't self pity, you're in shock and it's absolutely vital you take some time to talk or post or be silent or whatever you need.
I was where you are three years ago yesterday. I don't want to intrude but feel free to pm if it would help.

Hi Darnley, so sorry to hear of your loss. Please take comfort knowing there are a lot of us who care. Keep talking. xx