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How big is too big?

64 replies

howbigistoobig · 15/04/2007 22:08

Have met a lovely man, been on 2 dates, emailed lots and chatted on the phone. He is a pilot (ex RAF) well educated, well spoken, good looking, nice build, financially stable and a good kisser BUT.....
He has told me he has a very very large member and many women have dumped him because of that and that alone.

Now would you keep going until this issue came up (scuse the pun) or keep him as a friend? He is really concerned and I have seen a picture. We are talking 12" long and 8" diameter (thats a shake and vac tin! lol)

Ex hubby was 9x5 and that always had go very very gently

I really don't know what to do

OP posts:
AnOtter · 15/04/2007 22:08
Hmm
noddyholder · 15/04/2007 22:09

It will save you lots of money in batteries

Crazydazy · 15/04/2007 22:10

He'll definitely put the freshness back thats for sure.

DimpledThighs · 15/04/2007 22:10
Hmm
AnOtter · 15/04/2007 22:10

chop some off.....i do a fab blanket stitch

lulumama · 15/04/2007 22:10
AnOtter · 15/04/2007 22:10

or or or ....

RustyBear · 15/04/2007 22:10

8" diameter is a tea plate - do you mean circumference?

DrNortherner · 15/04/2007 22:11

My dh is 12x9 (that's a tube of Pringles)

But once you pop you can't stopp.

AnOtter · 15/04/2007 22:11

slam it in a door and let the end droop - it will soon drop off

Guitargirl · 15/04/2007 22:11

Seen a picture?

lulumama · 15/04/2007 22:11

snort at rusty !!

Oblomov · 15/04/2007 22:11

Eye watering !!!!

NotQuiteCockney · 15/04/2007 22:11

I'm pretty sure that one adjusts to any size, pretty much. He needs to be careful and attentive, and obviously some positions are better than others.

Do people now send out photos of their bits to people they're debating sleeping with? Have I missed a lovely new trend?

AnOtter · 15/04/2007 22:12

put a rubber band round the glans - cuts off the supply - you wont miss the mushroom

Oblomov · 15/04/2007 22:12

No willy can be 8" wide. Impossible.

Original poster
howbigistoobig · 15/04/2007 22:12

This really is a serious question, I'm not having anyone on

I've known 1 or 2 men mates that have been well endowed and it can cause problems

I'm just not sure whether to take relationship further or stick where it's at

OP posts:
NotQuiteCockney · 15/04/2007 22:12

Presumably she means circumference?

scatterbrain · 15/04/2007 22:13

Why would you measure it ???

Maybe the OP hasn't learned the differenece between diameter and circumference yet - probably not reached GCSE year yet !

nallydoolally · 15/04/2007 22:13

does he carry it around in his wallet "aww and here is a pic of my big willy..isn't he a darling??"

AnOtter · 15/04/2007 22:13

go for it flabby fanj

NotQuiteCockney · 15/04/2007 22:13

And I've known men and couples who have run into size incompatibility issues this way. I do think most size issues (either way) can be worked around, if both partners are relaxed and open about it all.

PinkTulips · 15/04/2007 22:14

if you pushed a baby out it can get in

am gagging somewhat at the thought of the type of date where one brings along photoes of ones member

Original poster
howbigistoobig · 15/04/2007 22:14

8" around is what I meant

And we have been really chatting lots and he has a real downer about and that's why I got the pic

OP posts:
AnOtter · 15/04/2007 22:15

actually when i met dp i showed him a shot of my beaver so we got off on the right footing