Husband spying on me

[Crazycake]

Dh has been asking every day this week if there's been any parcels in the post, when I've asked what he's waiting for he's been very aloof. I went on the laptop yesterday (shared computer) and he'd sent an email to amazon asking where his parcel was. I have never had a reason to snoop but something didn't sit right. I put the link into the search bar in google and he's ordered what looks like a USB stick but it's a motion detector spy cam with sound. I don't know what to do!

She's obviously In a basement somewhere :-/

Can you track it somehow? Install the software yourself too?

I thought maybe it was to spy on the kids too, not necessarily sinister as I know some one who used one of these when stuff was going missing (suspected teenage step dc), of course you have mentioned a porn habit so I might think the worst.

You need to say 'I know you bought a spy cam, where is it? Spying on me or dcs is not acceptable and I want the camera'. I would then check the memory card (if you can see anything, those spycams are rubbish) to see what he has been looking at. If he won't admit he has one or show you it then you know he is up to no good.

Ignore the porn habit comment, I don't think that was you op, I spend so much time reading Mumsnet that the threads blur

@Crazycake are you ok?

Crazycake- are you ok? Tell us you're ok- even if it's just one word.

Is anyone else worried?

Can anyone check if she's been on other threads so at least we know she's been online recently??

bonfireheart no sign of her under this name since this thread.