How would you feel if your DP/DH had a takeaway for 1

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I am wrong to be hurt by this. After a stressful day DP announced he is going out for food. Comes back with a chinese takeway and sits in the lounge and stuffs his face. Then offers me leftovers err no thanks. He has in fact done this twice in the past week. To make matters worse he knows I am broke.

Well you're not trying to fix him, I'm sorry, you're just putting up with it. If my husband called me a thick bitch it would be Armageddon. The whole neighbour hood would know about it.

I agree yes there will be faults on both sides, but just end this. Honestly, the relationship is awful. Don't sit and read books, just tell him it's come to an end.

All this name-calling by men haters is based on incomplete information.

Interesting that women who call out abusers are themselves called men-haters. All the fucking time.

I'll tell you what - I love men. I hate abusers - male or female. I respond to words on a page, and the fact that these words are showing that the OP is being abused means yes - I do want her to end this and to have a better life. What normal human being wouldn't?

I'll tell you what - I love men. I hate abusers - male or female

This! Calling out abuse isn't misandrism, it's stating a fact. Abusers are arseholes, men are not. It's not hard. Men who are abusers are arseholes, men who are not abusers are not arseholes.

Decent blokes also despise abusive men and call them names which reflect that.

Punished you because you didn't make another meal to replace the one HE burnt? Whats up with him, had his hands been cut off?

He rants and raves. You sat in your car crying. Its not the 1st time he's bought a meal for one,

I've never been with a man who hasn't automatically bought me a takeaway alongside whatever he is having, even if I didn't ask it would be 'I got you something just in case'. If I didn't fancy the meal then it would go in fridge until next day

What do you even see in this greedy mannerless entitled selfish pig? I wouldn't touch a man like that with someone else's, the traits are too unattractive. Its stay or he goes really. If you want to continue the relatioship just open your eyes and realise this is who he is. He won't change.. You'll have years of him to put up with. There are far nicer and courteous men out there but of course its up to you