newish relation shop - mood swings

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I'm dating a guy that I knew from years ago - friend of a friend. He can be totally lovely etc but can go into tempers where he literally will say the most horrible things.

The most recent being we had a night out and after going back to mine and having z few more drinks we crashed out. He left his phone downstairs and the alarm goes off this morning. I woke him to tell him and he is like another person. He told me I was selfish inconsidebate and needy. That just because I'm up etc that I don't need to talk. In facthe - so he tells me - I need company all the time he can't have a cigarette etc but I'm beside him. I honestly don't feel I've done anything wrong but more than once he as been awful to me. Shouting and nasty.

He has told me he won't be back to see me and if I want him to phone
I'm so so upset - he says he loves me and then.this 😢.

If you were near me I'd go get your stuff for you!! I really don't like this guy. I hope you can move on quickly for your sake. He wants someone he can treat like shit and you really shouldn't be that person.

You have done the right thing. In time you will cease to be so fixated on him and will begin to live a life without him in it as second nature. He will come to feature less and less in your immediate consciousness.

I was initially coming on to advise you to run like the wind. He's manipulative, self-centred and vitriolic. Never mind red flags, this guy is wearing a red suit. A life with him would be one of tears, anxiety, fear of his wrath and walking on eggshells. No relationship is worth that. You'll get over him. xx

When will the crying stop do u think?

Aw I want to hug you!
If you're anything like me you'll be weepy for a couple of days... Is there anything you can do to take your mind off it? See a friend, family, watch a film, go for a walk etc?