Friend with benefits wants to 'f**k me forever'

[Diditmyway]

I'm so confused, we only have a sex only relationship, which has been on and off for almost two years now, but he says stuff like this a lot, also has said he loves having sex with me more than anything and he would do anything with me (sex related). We were having sex once and he was saying my name over and over and he told me he loved me but it's only sex?

There's nothing wrong with having a child at 18 or 39 OP nobody is saying that. I had my first child at 19 and my last at 35, everyone is different.
The fact he likes it that your son and his friends know what he gets up to with you is pretty weird. This isn't going to end well for you, he wants nothing more than sex from you and when he meets a woman he actually loves/respects you'll be history.

You have a son that is close in age, to your FWB, and you actually enjoy mother/son sex role play? So, you enjoy pretending that your FWB is your son? That is completely fucked up. I really hope you haven't shared this information with your son.

Terribly sex negative of me but I totally agree with this ^

Completely 🤔 At it being posted on a site called Mumsnet too.

Fantasies are just that - fantasies! Bdsm contains many similar fantasies - rape, domination, submission, pain etc - but the participants would abhor any of those in real life. Rightly so!

It's not real!

Did you not read where this man said he liked that her son knew what he was doing with his mother? Hardly a 'harmless' fantasy, pretty grim imo.

Apologies I did miss that, yes. And agree with your comments in that case.

I stand by what I said in a generalised way however -

So, you enjoy pretending that your FWB is your son?

That's really what I was talking about. She didn't say that at all.

Im on holiday and all I'm seeing is couples holding hands, I'm lonely and I've let him take advantage, I'm going to fuck him off, change my number. The fantasy stuff, maybe I should never have mentioned it on this, I didn't think I'd be judged? Thanks for the advice to those who have given it.

Bullshit

Oooo you're in 60s he's in twenties
!!!!

Sorry nomore I was talking to justabout, didn't mean to be sharp.
OP what about taking time to be alone; you don't HAVE to be in a 'relationship' you know.

Go and fuck yourself, bet no one else wants to

Your a man, aren't you?

Hairy hands

This thread is a good example of why I would never post asking advice on anything vaguely intimate or unconventional on mumsnet. You will be interrogated, insulted, called a liar and god knows what else, and then if youre vaguely snippy back god help you.

It also makes good reading of course

A reverse from a trucker called Dave.

A reverse from a trucker called Dave.

Brilliant

Bitter old hags? Oh my you're a peach aren't you?
I think, in actual fact, you're the bitter one. Very unpleasant.

Methinks this started out as a stealth boast from OP, young FB,great sex, then she didn't get the responses she wanted so takes ball home

babycow yup

What MrDilkington said.

Please pm me, the messages have been deleted.

The whole thing sounds like some bloke's creepy sexual fantasy tbh. Not like something written by a grown woman with an adult son.