Hi,
I'm wondering if I can get opinions on this and if anyone has experience. I have access to my children 1 night a week and every other weekend and have requested more access to make it a 50/50 shared custody arrangement which is always knocked back with a rejection, so I have basically given up on that.
However, this morning I turned up at the children's school and saw my ExW's car there very early. I asked at reception as I was dropping something off and she said, no the kids weren't in yet, but I saw that my ExW had signed in to go into the school. Emailed and after a few hours a reply from ExW was to say the kids were at another parents.
In the past, when one of the children has been ill, she hasn't told me until after school and the drop off/pick ups she gets other parents to do. I really have no idea how often she is getting others to care for the children. They go on sleepovers with friends a lot (every weekend they are with her practically). I work from home most days and would be available to do all of the above. I get that she isn't asking me because she hates me basically, but is this right? Shortly after the split she came down on me like a ton of bricks when she found out I was going to use a babysitter one evening (I didn't use one in the end and haven't used one since).
Anybody got similar accounts?