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I cant cope

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Itsnotmyday · 28/04/2017 08:09

Exdp left me around 2 months ago, saying we wanted different things. He left me devestated. We dont have any kids together. Since then he has said he has been seeing other people, then said he has mad it up to hurt me, then he has said he has slept with someone else, then said he has lied to hurt me. This has been continuas. In between we had tried to rebuild our relationship. I told him so many times to leave me alone but he never could, said he couldnt let go. It all come to a head other day when he said that he had met someone else, she is complete oppsisite to me and its made him realise what he wants and he hasnt been this happy in ages. Yesterday i caught him twice driving past my house but i never messaged him. I got a phone call saying he has sti. He kept ringing me sayingHe said he needed to come round to talk to me. So i let him round. He said he is in a relationship with someone else and to let him go. I hadnt messaged him so i couldnt understand him saying that. Said he needed to know if o was seeing someone else (im not). Then said he was lying about the sti. He got emotional saying his head was a mess. I told him to delete my number and he left. Im so confused about this. I had left him alone, it was him who wouldnt leave me alone. Even though he is so happy with someone else. Everything is a mess and the worst thing about it all is i still love him

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JK1773 · 29/05/2017 20:11

You're doing brilliantly. Keep yourself as busy as you can. I've only just seen this thread but he sounds like a total control freak and I doubt you've heard the last of him. Get out and about, see your friends. Can you have a girly holiday or one with your mum. Start building a life that's all about you. Things will get better. My ex used to accuse me of having third parties follow him etc (ermmm Hmm) totally bonkers. Sounds like yours might have some personality issues. Keep your chin up xx

GeekyWombat · 29/05/2017 20:12

You're doing so well, be gentle on yourself when you have a bad day.

Every day that passes gets a bit easier. Just remember he's a twat and you deserve better.

Flowers
Itsnotmyday · 29/05/2017 21:24

Im off to my dads with my dd for a few days tomorrow. I hate him, but i dont want to hate him i want to feel nothing! I think i put too much pressure on myself to not feel hurt vecause all his messages saying to move on and im pathetic and sad or to 'go find another cock'

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Itsnotmyday · 03/06/2017 08:20

Sooo im going out on a date tonight! Someone i had been talking to on tinder then whatsapp. Im shitting my pants! Is it too soon?? Its only for a few drinks, so cant see any harm i suppose. Aghh

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