I don't know where my boyfriend gets his money from??

[mummytotwo2]

Hi, i have been seeing a guy i met from instagram for 3 months now, everything has been great with this guy we became like best friends in an instant. He has met my kids and I've met his. He was friends with my sister but we had never met before until we started talking on IG. (he added me on there as he had my sister on there already)

One thing i'm curious about with him is that he NEVER goes into any detail about his life/background and he doesn't have a job but always seem to have money to take me out. He buys me gifts out of the blue sometimes if he's passing a shop where he sees something i'd mentioned i like but can't afford he just buys it me and gives it to me next time i see him. He bought my eldest daughter a new coat for school, he is always buying himself new things too, the other day he had two new tattoos done and i know they weren't cheap i asked him how much he paid for the latest big piece he had done he just said "does it matter".

all he says to me is that he's looking for a job but needs to be motivated to do a job otherwise he gets bored too quickly. Anything around money/income/job he just sort of brushes it off and laughs, like i went to pay for a cab we took into town last week and he said it doesn't matter he will pay and then i jokingly said to him "Oh you're loaded aren't you so it doesn't matter" but again he just laughs and says something like "well it's better to have money than not isn't it"

He very rarely tells me anything about his family outside of his children. He always keeps saying how life is stressful and how he gets depressed but i can't help him much because i just can't see what he is depressed about! he won't open up at all.

the reason i am interested about this is because i have basically opened up to him about every single personal and private thing i have been through and he's been so understanding and supportive and has never judged me for any of it, yet he himself hardly tells me anything about his life or about his current circumstances (plans for the future, etc)

am i just being overly nosey here or is it normal for a man to be this reserved about himself?

Momma yes seeing as he got me pregnant

Yo ladies

@MommaGee

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Spunkle a brilliant new word in my lexicon and not one I'm likely forget, although I have little opportunity to use it really.

Spunklewentworth is this actually you? Send me some of your hot instagram photos I'm in love with you.

This thread has entertained me for hours! Made a couple of hours sat in the hospital waiting room fly by! 😆

Are you with him when he goes to the till?

follow me on Insta, yeah? @unkyspunky

he is a pimp and you are being groomed for a life on the game.

Sheeple

#feelinblessed @unkyspunky

that may be something hideous on Twitter

unborn then tell the bugger you deserve the expensive stuff! arse :D

thanks enrique

MommaGee - true. I think I'm just jealous 😊
This man has it made- loads of cash without working for it, spends his days down at the gym, fit body, has women fawning all over him, loads of designer gear, relationship with OP on his own terms, just fun stuff with his children when he wants, roof over his head provided by his hard working mother who probably washes & irons his undies aswell, intelligent and really hot.

Are you with him when he goes to the till?

Is that a euphemism?

soz blameless twitter user whose handle I have stolen for comedic purposes

Updating Insta on Monday
Out robbing Primark on Tuesday
Flogging 'roids in the gym on Wednesday
And on Thursday and Friday and Saturday
Spunkle by Sunday

What does he buy you from Ann summers? Wondering what makes this perfect guy tick

@unkyspunky

What about all those council estate cuties giving you the glad eye on Insta?

I should leave the bastard and hook up with Spunkle.

Such a free thinker won't mind a couple of kids or a bit itching 😘😍

He'd shoplift buy me the good stuff.

you're all mean and now @mummytotwo2 won't come back

LadyOfTheCanyon Plenty to go round, gurl flexes

Will you lot stop it I need to go to sleep! Not at all place marking for the deletion message.

Yeah ladies, unkyspunky needs his beauty sleep, got work research- sweet FA to do in the morning.

Which one of you lots nc'd

Yes Lady. It is. Can't tell you what for

OP please don't have children with your feckless crush. The world isn't ready for that kind of stupid

Sprinkle your far too polite in calling us ladies, half the attraction I have to you is that your street gangster, what you buying us bitches from your weed money Tommrow?