my child's dad would sometimes phone during the day to talk to them which my partner said he wasn't happy about
So he has a problem with your DDs father calling her during the day!
so I agreed just a phone call at night
Why did you agree to this? He's a jealous bully.
but now he's said he doesn't want my child's dad phoning at all
He shouldn't get to dictate.
he should just text me the days he's taking her(he tells me a week in advance) and that's it, thrs no need for him to phone in between the days he has them it's weird and invasive and he thinks we should have totally seperate life's with my child I just can't agree to that I think he's being totally unreasonable at the end of the day my child's dad is still thr dad and he loves them and they love him and I want them to have a good relationship, It would cut him to the bone (and start world war 3)
if I stopped him phoning my partner said it would be less confusing for my child and better for them
Does your boyfriend have kids of his own?
He hasnt got your child's interestat heart at all. Is he a child psychologist? What tells him contact with their dad by phone calls is confusing .... it's really all your child has known. So how is it confusing?
because they can sometimes be a bit funny for the first few hours when they come back from thr dads
Nonsense.
I just don't agree with what he's asking me to do
Then don't do it. He's not worth it.