My 17 year relationship is unhappy. Has been for ages.
I've known a man for about 25 years. Friend of a friend. Nice bloke. Married with dc.
We started chatting on fb about work.
The messages progressed.
I was very tempted as was he, but we decided not to take it any futher or to meet up.
But i wanted too. I am incredibly attracted to him.
I suddenly understand why people have affairs. Never 'got it' before.
Ultimately for me, I couldn't continue as i know his wife & dc, be it not very well.
Dp has no idea. Its made me realise how poor my relationship is.
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Now at 43 i realise why people have affairs
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