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Should I ring this number

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NameChanged2333 · 15/10/2016 12:47

Apologies - this may be confusing

My DP went out last night and didn't come home. This morning he has made two phone calls to a number that has a picture of a woman on the contacts but no name.
He claims it's the number of the girlfriend of the friend he stayed at and his phone ran out of charge so he used my DP's phone to call her this morning. His friend hadn't remembered the (new) girlfriends number but in anticipation of losing his charger in the morning had got her to ring his phone (when they were out and she wasn't with them). Then this morning after his friend's phone ran out of charge and he couldn't find the charger, he woke my DP up to phone his girlfriend with the conveniently stored number.

My DP then blocked the "girlfriend's" number in his phone so she didn't call him and I "wouldn't give him shit"

I thought it was bullshit but as I'm typing that I'm even more convinced I'm being spun a lie.

Shall I ring it? I risk looking like a twunt if he is telling the truth don't I?

OP posts:
sophiestew · 16/10/2016 19:04

I would also report him for assaulting you. What a piece of work he is Sad

AyeAmarok · 16/10/2016 19:18

Sorry to hear this OP, can't believe he pushed you over then just left you. Sad

You deserve so much better than this. Don't look back.

NameChanged2333 · 16/10/2016 19:51

No one saw him do it. However, I knew he would verbally abuse me so set my phone to record and it's caught it all.
I've just played it to my friend. She cried.
What the fuck have I been doing?

OP posts:
AnyFucker · 16/10/2016 20:09

I don't know what you have been doing. But it's time to stop, love.

NameChanged2333 · 16/10/2016 20:13

I have. I've stopped.

Thanks everyone.

I'm signing off now. Stopping dwelling in the past and getting on with the future- without him. Onwards and upwards!

Thanks again.

OP posts:
AnyFucker · 16/10/2016 20:27

Good luck for the future. It's got to be better than what you are walking away from Thanks

TrollTheRespawnJeremy · 16/10/2016 21:44

Raising a glass to you OP. Good for you!

BusterGonad · 17/10/2016 04:58

Good for you OP and can I just say it was really clever if you to record it, I'm sorry things have turned out so crap for you but I'm sure the future will be bright and full of happiness. You are at last free to be who you truly are and deserve to be xxx

AcrossthePond55 · 17/10/2016 05:58

Best of luck for the future. I know yours will be good. After all, we make our own luck and I know you will make yours all it should be.

Scarydinosaurs · 17/10/2016 06:30

Best of luck, I hope today is easier.

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