So ashamed of myself

[Theblamegame]

Name changed for this.

So I was dating a guy for around 6 months when we decided to call it a day. Nothing bad but we just didn't see it going anywhere.

We always had good chemistry and sex. So even though we broke it off we slept together a few times since.

I've been feeling in the mood so made contact and we exchanged a few dirty messages and hinted at meeting up. So I sent him a couple of nude selfies (have done this lots before, I know no face etc) and a suggestive message. This was on Friday and he hasn't replied. I followed up with another message yesterday evening and still no response!

I am feeling so embarrassed and ashamed at myself as he must think I am crazy. I feel like I've thrown myself at him.

How do I stop these feelings? I am so low this evening and can't stop thinking about what he must think about me.

Op he sounds like he was saving you the embarrassment. He said he hadn't heard from you in a little while he does have you're number doesn't he. You are probably not the only girl he has got on the side you may have to think about extra contraception to protect yourself. I had a friend like you its to much drama you have to get over you're vanity and find someone who will treat you well. You behave like you still want him back and I think you deserve better.

"Also Purple I feel like you are missing a bit of a point... He isn't a guy that I barely know. He's someone that has seen me naked on numerous occasions and has spent 6 months exclusively dating.

Quite frankly if he shows them to his friends I don't particularly care, as it's not like I'm going to bump into them. I would never even know."

Oh that's good to know :o

Purple it's really not your concern or business! Your judgmental attitude is breathtaking. I feel you should look closer to home.

Glad you're feeling better about things OP