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Horrible tinder message

84 replies

polkadotrocks · 30/08/2016 22:37

Just opened a message on tinder:

'you have a good first pic, but you're really just a fat girl'

Sent a suitably scathing response but am kind of crushed.

I have lost 3 1/2 stone. Am now a size 14. I thought I looked ok now.

Waaaaahhh!

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QueenLizIII · 31/08/2016 17:29

I got nasty messages via whatsapp after we moved off tinder to whatsapp.

he had seemed ok on tinder.

he started texting me whilst drunk. So i told him to go away. he then sent me messages calling me ugly and fat, etc.

I noted that his phone number linked up to his facebook and linkedin so i knew where he worked and his full name.

i told him via whatsapp what I'd found out and said one more word and screen short and email your vile messages to your HR dept at work and also inform the police.

QueenLizIII · 31/08/2016 17:31

*screen shot, not short.

YouSayWhaaat · 31/08/2016 20:24

Look up the Instagram account Byefilipe

polkadotrocks · 31/08/2016 21:37

Oh, I've seen that on fb!

Actually, am close to quitting OLD. Two guys who seemed nice have today turned into total pervs.

I just might have to be single forever :-)

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PikachuSayBoo · 31/08/2016 21:39

He's just a troll who gets kicks out of upsetting people. Not the sort of person who is worth being upset by. Fuck him.

ShebaShimmyShake · 31/08/2016 22:07

Ooh, a negger! I thought those shitheads had Darwinned themselves out of the gene pool. If you dare to let this bottom feeding loser spoil your self esteem, I will personally come round and force feed you cake until you regain all that weight you've so brilliantly lost.

Neggers are morons with no ability to form relationships. I can't find the xkcd cartoon about them right now but it is worth looking it up. And then banish this bellend from your head.

QueenLizIII · 01/09/2016 00:21

ByeFelipe is shit.

I sent them my abusive messages from that guy and they didnt publish them, just generic crap

Shutupjustshutupshutup · 01/09/2016 00:25

I really pity him. To project that much, you have to be deep in the throes of crippling insecurity. I bet it's just an unfortunate coincidence that you've also been losing weight and therefore are sensitive to weight comments , but really it's just as ludicrous as him saying " your first pic is fine but you're blatantly a ginger / an eskimo/ a man / a red indian."

SecondMrsAshwell · 01/09/2016 13:26

I'm a very large lady. I used to work with a guy who was stunningly good looking, very, very posh, a real high flier and not short of a bob or two. He was always extremely nice to me and would stop and chat in the tea room, etc..... Not that he fancied me - he had a girlfriend who was so gorgeous you had to put sunglasses on to look at her photo - but he always treated me so nicely that it put the following phrase into my head:

Better looking, richer, more successful men than you have not felt the need to upset me. I see no reason why you should feel entitled to.

Have a nice Brew and remember that your troll probably hates his mum for being a woman.

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