Why does my lovely boyfriend have arse outbursts ?

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He's wonderful. I love him dearly .
Every so often he gets arsey and verbally aggressive.
Tonight it was because I hadn't helped him with a graphic layout for his business.

He asked me to help a week ago. I've been really busy and have not done it yet. ( 2 jobs 3 kids ) He came home tonight growling at me and calling me selfish for no sorting it out yet. It's not an urgent thing.
The thing is not relevant. He finds a reason to be a bit mental at me every few weeks.
What gives ? Don't say LTB . That's not helpful.

That advice was meant for other posters not the OO

Op

I think your boyfriend is an arse who has lovely outbursts.

What Scarlet said.

Either he is a tosser who finds an excuse to lay into you every few weeks, or he is a man who breaks down emotionally on the anniversarys of his childs birth and death. Which is it?

So annoyed this thread isn't about farting

Cinnamon you're right. But it's quite difficult over the course of a thread to be a therapist

And also sometimes posters have a revelation when everyone tells them their bf is an arse. Women often know that really, they're just squashing the feeling down for a multitude of reasons.

The thing is not relevant. He finds a reason to be a bit mental at me every few weeks.
There are two occasions each year when it is bad. His child's birthday and the anniversary of his child's death.

Difficult to answer your question. It depends which of the above is true.