I hope your ever filthier carpet is making him uncomfortable Remember.
Lilac I love the idea of you going to the door in slinkier and newer outfits just to wind him up!
Lemonpledge That's so pathetic, he really has no shame obviously. Does part of you wish you could warn her, or do you know she wouldn't believe you anyway?
As for my ex, nothing new, which is good. I can't believe how my feelings have changed since he gave me that weird, blank, almost dead look the other day. Before, I still had some sympathy for him about not seeing the kids every day. I was also still hoping that just maybe we could be in the same room for the kids sake. Now I can't even bear to text him.
Just broke off from typing this to answer a call from my dd. She's trying out a new sport tonight. I texted him to say pick her up from xxx. It's somewhere he knows well. He doesn't reply, so have to ask ds to ring him to make sure he's collecting. Yes, he's on his way.
Cue call from dd that he's not there! Cue call from clueless ex. First time I've spoken to him in over a year. Is dd there? No, she's at xxx, said calmly. He replied "oh, er", I hung up. I phone dd, eventually get through, she's with dad, he couldn't find her. FFS ! If you knew the place it's not difficult.
This knew sport will also happen on one of his days with them. He's just told dd that's fine. However it will involve more randomness, he'll have to be more flexible and organised. He is not good at that (see previous paragraph!). I refuse to pick up the slack on his days, but no doubt will be forced into it occasionally to avoid dd being left stranded, or in some other way inconvenienced.