I've made a fake profile...

[FakeBake]

Found out my DH has been on OLD websites, a family member found his profile had been active and told me.

I've set up a profile claiming to be a woman from our area, I've found his profile but I'm not sure what to do next.

I need proof that he's talking to women, I've got the app on my phone so I can keep an eye on it if he views me but I'm hesitant about sending him a message, perhaps because I'm scared of the outcome?

Has anyone done this before?

Sandy

My point is that if this is necessary, if things have deteriorated to the point of a private detective or a Catfishing, or a polygraph; the marriage is dead in the water because the trust is lost and will never fully come back.

She proves to herself he isn't cheating? What then? Will she have peace of mind, or be constantly second guessing til next time.

I'm sorry you're going through this OP but I think you need to decide whether you want to be married to a man you can't trust

I agree completely with you EverySongbirdSays. Why waste the time, expense and effort on catfishing or hiring a PI etc if you do not trust your partner. That level of mistrust can not be undone.

I think this is a risky game. I hope he hasn't replied.

It is risky. And I guess it doesn't matter if he replies - if he does, OP has her answer. If he doesn't, it could either be that he didn't fancy the profile picture, or he's already talking to someone else and isn't interested at the moment, or that he isn't interested in anyone at the moment. There's no easy way to know which is correct.

Even if OP made multiple accounts to try and elicit a response, she'd never know why he wasn't responding...

Good luck though, OP. I hope you get an answer somehow.

Hope it's just a glitch in the system

F means I am following the thread. I can't find out how to watch a thread now the formats changed. Any help? I am on a mobile.

Are you ok OP?

Are you using the mobile site or the app yummy? If you're on the mobile site at the top where it says "Talk>relationships" there's a downwards arrow. Click it to bring up the menu where watch this thread" is an option.

Same here

I've just read the full thread
I'm hopeful no news is good news and op has not heard anything more from do old profile

Thank you!

Hope you're ok OP - and hope he's not replied