@mamato3lads Why? I have bipolar so I can't keep men around who are like this, as when I'm ill they can take advantage of me/I shag them when I wouldn't usually. Recently I even had to go to the police because I let one hang around and then he eventually sexually exploited/coerced me while I was ill.
After I realized I shouldn'tve kept the rapey guy around, I then blocked several that I mistrusted/got a spider sense about. I have to for my health.
As I see this one IRL I can't have him having the wrong idea, as anything could happen theoretically then.
Also after the experience I had, men like that give me the horrors more than other women get, maybe.
I'm allowed to set my own boundaries, in fact it would be irresponsible of me not to.
The only reason he's not blocked is I sometimes go along to a group he's at, so I didn't want it to be awkward.
Otherwise, he'd be blocked like the other men who give me the creeps.
Maybe women without bipolar don't have to do that, but I do.