DH has gone missing

[HeadWrecked26]

Name changed for this as I don't want this attached to my usual name.

Long story short DH (and his friend) has gone missing and I have no idea what to do!

He went out to friends on Sunday evening around 6. He called at 9ish said he was staying out but would be home approx 10am Monday morning.
All fine as he didn't have work etc etc.
I had a message from his friend st around 2pm Monday saying that DHs phone has died and that DH is really sorry he is late but he'll be home by tea time.
Since then no one has seen or heard from DH or his friend.
I've checked the police custody suite, hospitals, as many friends that I can think of and been round to friends house but obviously no one was there.
I'm worried sick, I can't sleep, can't eat and my anxiety is only letting me think the worst has happened.

I know this is about ranty, sorry for that! I just needed to talk about how scared I am. Can anyone think of a logical explanation to where they could have got to? I need abit of hope that he's okay!

You sound very strong OP. I'm sorry you've had to go through this, what an absolute arse he is.

Unfortunately HeadWrecked too many people on MN seem to treat other people's stories as if they're an episode of Eastenders.

Stay strong

HeadWrecked, thinking of you.
Bloody hell, the shock after a whole week of worry.
Anger will fuel you but don't forget to eat and try and rest, too.

Unfortunately HeadWrecked too many people on MN seem to treat other people's stories as if they're an episode of Eastenders.
^^This is true. But it would be good to hear that you are alright.

However, if you are not ok (and why should you be?), but you don't want MN advice and support, then I can understand that too.

Hope you're okay, op. Do what you need to to make yourself feel better, put yourself and your DS first.
These things take time but you'll get there. And you don't need to update anyone; we're strangers after all, but just know we are thinking of you and can support you if needs be.

Aww Head - so sorry - remember you owe folk here nothing. If you need support then everyone is here to give it but soap opera updates are not expected or demanded. Fwiw I think you are doing amazingly well. KOKO.

Good luck OP - sadly from reading the first post I knew one way or the other this was not going to end well...

I hope life improves soon.

I hope you've got RL support as well, it's been a hell of a shock for you! Ignore some posters, they seem to think it's a soap opera where we need to next installment.

To be fair to the posters who asked for an update I think they just became a bit over invested in the op's situation given her DH had acted particularly badly. People were just rooting for her and not wanting the vilan to get back into her life. I'm sorry OP you felt people were asking for the next instalment while you are understandably suffering- other posters are right you don't owe anyone on here anything. Just look after yourself and you DC and we're here for you if and when you need us xx

Take good care of yourself and your baby of course.

I won't trot out all the platitudes but time really is the healer people say it is and one day you will look back and wonder what you ever saw in the arsehole.

I do

OP. I don't want/expect you to respond but I just wanted to message you. Really really hope that you're ok and that your life is in a better place xxx