Don't forget 50 per cent of his pension too.
This is the beginning of the first day of your new life.
Be glad he's gone . Living with someone who does not want to be here really sucks.
Mine wanted me to throw him out. Why? I don't know! He was a conniving bastard so I did the opposite. I put up with him. He could have left any time so why did he stay?
Was he hoping to go to the judge and say...she chucked me out your honour and I was trying to make it work. I honestly did not know so no way was I going to make it easy for him.
Oh and the crocodile tears mine cried. No wonder my head was in bits.
He's gone! Rejoice. He gets to feel the cold hard world without you to cushion the blow.
That gaping husband sized hole he's left behind will soon be filled with something more deserving of your attention and trust.
You need to draw up your battle plan because he's with the enemy now and she will want to wring every penny out of him to be funnelled into their relationship rather than see it go to you and your children.
Mine regretted what he did. He thought he could have his life with another woman and still have his family. That wasn't to be and he paid dearly for it.
On the other hand I got the family home, my kids were brilliant and the grand kids came along thick and fast and you couldn't have paid me enough to take him back. When he bolted out the door marked freedom he never reflected on the fact that he left it open for me too and I had a blast.
It hurts now sweetheart. You've been slammed into the brick wall while he vaulted over it. ( mine did literally . Looking back it was hilarious . I came home unexpectedly while he was babysitting. Here's Ow waiting in her car for him. She drives off before I have a chance to speak to her. . He flings his bulk over our back wall ( leaving baby inside and French doors open) to go and find her. Meanwhile I'm in house, spotted baby grandson in cot , back doors wide open and wondering wtf was going on.
Next thing daughter comes along from her house wondering wtf all the noise is about. Thankfully baby slept through it all.
So yes, he's vaulted over the brick wall of life but it won't be all roses. Karma has a horrible way of biting people on the bum.
Has he taken everything. I suggest you pack it all in black bags and leave it I n the hall. If he doesn't collect it within a week it will go outside and if still doesn't collect it will go to the tip.
You can call the shots now. He's handed you the power stick.
It was crazy.