FindingNewMo - Part V

[MoKoKo]

Latest one...

Think I'll just c&p that word for word, Mix Arse kicking at its best.

That's better Mo, get some gloves on

Takes a bow
!
Just furious at his evading the problems & clear double life. (You could even wonder if he has a new family )
He is stalling his return, any other set up is inevitably going to cost him more.
I, personally, would get on to his company, & tell them that he has seen his children for 18 hours in 18 months (whatever), he is refusing to give you sufficient money for food & house repairs, quibbles over school uniform,clubs, the kids are dressed in supermarket clothes, & you haven't had any new clothes in 2 years., You are unable to get the state assistance as he is running away from his responsibilities & not signing the paperwork, up to & including refusing to even come home for a w/e. whereas he goes for repeated w/e jollys elsewhere.
he has effectively put you in prison & you are asking nothing of him apart from your civil rights as a human being, to be freed from his domination.

If it is an American company they will probably look on this with great disapproval.

I think I love you Mix
You've grasped the whole picture so well...and you don't even know us...do you??!!
I'm going to keep your last two posts for future use for sure. You say it so much better and much more succinctly than I can. I'm still caught up in his web.

Mo, I feel I do know you a bit, over the months of postings......
It is relatively easy to see from outside the "web".
I don't actually see what you have to lose by contacting his company...
particularly if it is to ask to deliver papers that he is refusing to acknowledge.

Mix! You are magic!

Mo, I know you might not be ready to do it, but honestly, sending Mix's words just like that would be fantastic. Glad you're keeping them. Keep reading them, every day I reckon.

Yes, take those kid gloves off, put on your big puffy boxing ones and sock it to him. Get things moving again.

I am choking and spluttering right now with the response I received regarding the work to the house.

Paraphrasing, he says as we are joint owners of the house, we are jointly responsible for any work so he wants me to agree to pay back half of the cost as I'm not in a position to pay now, or it will be deducted from any future sale of the house

So now he talks about sharing things 50/50. How convenient.

If he wants to start doing things by the book, he'd better start paying CM.

Like he shares the family money 50/50, like he share the care & education of the children 50/50, like he shares holidays & down time 50/50.
That is actually hilarious.
Just say fine...... if you have to pay half, when the house is sold so be it !
It won't be in a legal contract.

Maybe I can say oh I'm so pleased you've finally come round to the 50/50 approach. If only you'd done it sooner, our relationship could have been saved.

That is tongue in cheek btw.

pBy his reference to 50/50 he has acknowledged that he knows, is aware of everything that has been going on, and that all his delaying and silly tactics are just that; he's just proved your case for you.

Arrogant fuckwit. Not as clever as he thinks he is.

Press on lovely Mo, get those papers moving.

He must know he isn't gaining anything by doing this. He MUST know that. He's not that stupid. He must know what lies ahead. Or maybe I am overestimating his intelligence.

he is mentioning the possible future sale of the house... So it has filtered through.

He's probably a bit stunned now I've just nonchalantly said ok that's fine...

haha, Brilliant !

Have you told him to start paying CM yet?

His latest nonsense: he won't pay the money to me directly, he wants their bank details instead so he can do it himself. He really does think I'm going to do a runner or something (trust me it's not that much, especially as I'm supposed to be paying half so nothing really at all to him.)

Anyway: CM, I told him back in March/April to start paying following the advice of the solicitor I saw. He refused and because he's abroad thinks he can't be chased for it. I've started the ball rolling again on that one now.

Glad to hear you have got the ball rolling, Mo, hope you feel energised by grasping the initiative and dodging his attempts to block you. All the very best.

Oh thank goodness! I hope they back date it too. March/April, hmm, that should come to a nice little amount.

Honestly, I don't know how you can endure such constant fuckwittery.

I would sell the house, keep 100% of the profits and when he asks for his share, after deducting unpaid child support plus interest, I'd give it to him entirely in a selection of prepaid shopping vouchers.

Brilliant AuntMabel! Sadly though I can't sell without him. But you made me laugh

Can the CSA take it at source ? I'd be pushing like mad for them to ......

@AuntManel!

Mabel