Two days away and there are lots of messages!
I am reading them all, just I have lost track of who has said what! So yay to any successful dates, and boo to any hiccups for you all!
Spotty- enjoy it, but keep your feet on the ground... as I said in a previous post, actions speak much louder than words.
What - I may have missed any in between posts from the original (sorry), but having been through similar with my nan, it is horrid and my absolute sincerest thoughts are with you. RE your dating, I would perhaps give planeman a little benefit of the doubt on this occasion, but I wouldn't over invest, and I would pull back just a little until you have perhaps better gauged the sudden cooling/heating up again. I don't think it takes much to send a quick text if you like someone enough, and in my experience it has either been due to another woman, or the fact he is doing a fading ghosting act! I also do understand however that life does get in the way... I guess you just have to work out which type of texter a person is.
I have come to the conclusion that I am self sabotaging. I have met people through OLD, and not one I have felt a spark with. Yet I continue to try and see if 'something' will end up igniting, when I know it won't. That way I can walk away with my feelings still in tact. I think if it was the right person I would know, because I felt that buzz with YPT. Has anyone else ever done this, and how did you break the habit?!