did you fancy him straight away?

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So first date today with a lovely guy, such a sweet heart, we got on well but the thing is I just didn't fancy him at all. He has told me he really likes me but I'm just not feeling it, which I am completely gutted about because he's actually perfect boyfriend material but I'm just not attracted to him in that way.

Did you fancy your Dp/Dh straight away or was it a slow burner attraction?

mantra I hope so too
So sorry for your loss .

Oh... I spent a miserable evening. I met DH and his DSis at their DBs birthday. She spent hours chatting me up and all I could do was look at him and try to talk to him.

I met him again the following week and we spent a couple of hours chatting at a party. He didn't leave...

30 years on and we both say that we liked what we saw but that the long chat was the clincher - beautiful and interesting

Yes. Him, and only him, for all of my life. He however didn't feel the same (I said "I saw you and that was it, I just knew", he said "I couldn't believe someone with such big breasts wanted to be with me"... which makes me feel just awesome (sarcasm) but he stayed with me despite everything...if he ever leaves though, I'm just going to get a dog, so it's all good :)