Tonight found keepsake card in DP wallet

[Haribogirl]

So tonight snooping!! Yes I no but I have reason too

I found this keepsake plastic card that you give people with
FOR MY SOULMATE
with all things on it like
You are the only one for me
It really means so much
knowing that you care
And I love our life together
And the happy times we share
I LOVE YOU

SIGN TO HIM .... From HER .... On the back

What the fuck!!!!!

He's out tonight, and I want to text who the fuck is ...... But he'd have a story ready
But then I want to see his face when I confront him!! See what lies he can come up with!

Still part of me tells him he's not coming home, but I want to see his fucking face when I throw it at him

What would you say,

Take no notice of posters who are calling you crazy. This is a crazy making situation. It doesn't matter about the style of your posts you just want help and support.
What I was trying to say up thread was to stop caring about what he does and says because that way he has power over you.
Start thinking about you. Leave him.

HariboGirl - you had a thread last year where he gas lighted/stonewalled you? I remember due to the retirement and the son loving with you. Am I right?

My advice is the same as then - gather your evidence and see a solicitor. Once you have your hand, then show him. You don't deserve to live like this and it isn't fair on anyone. Stay well 💐

As far as him telling you he loves you, in his mind he does. And he thinks that should be enough for you.

One of the worst cheats I ever knew would vow on his very life that he loved his wife to distraction. And as far as he was concerned it was the truth. He truly felt his infidelity was nothing to do with his marriage or his feelings for his wife. When she finally got fed up and left he was absolutely gobsmacked and cried for days. He just couldn't understand why she left. After all, he 'treated her nicely and never hit her or anything'. Your husband has his own morality and his own 'code of honour'. Don't expect him to understand or agree to yours. He's dead wrong, of course, but again, there's nothing you can do about it.

You need to decide what YOU want to do. You can either accept his infidelities and continue on or you can leave. There are no other alternatives.

*As far as him telling you he loves you, in his mind he does. And he thinks that should be enough for you.

One of the worst cheats I ever knew would vow on his very life that he loved his wife to distraction. And as far as he was concerned it was the truth. He truly felt his infidelity was nothing to do with his marriage or his feelings for his wife. When she finally got fed up and left he was absolutely gobsmacked and cried for days. He just couldn't understand why she left. After all, he 'treated her nicely and never hit her or anything'. Your husband has his own morality and his own 'code of honour'. Don't expect him to understand or agree to yours. He's dead wrong, of course, but again, there's nothing you can do about it.

You need to decide what YOU want to do. You can either accept his infidelities and continue on or you can leave. There are no other alternatives*

Thank you.

You're welcome. for you, too.