Blimey, a woman goes on a lunchtime date instead of reading this thread and eating a sandwich and all sorts of stuff has gone on!
Waves to thread - I know I'm going to miss people out, apologies in advance.
Waving - I had a scout around on OKC to see if Soho was on there (he is in my age range, although he probably wants a younger woman, so I wouldn't be in his) - there's no-one likely using the name Andy, but there is a new chap, with a pic of him in front of the sea - could be in Thailand. Not much hair, but some pleasant-looking stubble. Has children. Not filled in his profile, it just says 'new here'. He's called 'Harbour something or other' Hmmm .... he 'liked' me.
You did well to use the lovely Mr Hussey's words, and I agree on the 'saying it with love' thing, when you want to poke him with pointy things it's a bit hard to do that! Anyway, it's his loss, he's a fuckwit ...
Shame - no judgement at all from me, but you can do whatever you want to do - you shouldn't feel you have to DTD so he doesn't move on. Do what you want.
Well done, those of you who are finding new irons.
Ahem ....
I met MrM at lunchtime. Like him a lot. Time totally ran away with us and I was a bit late back to my desk. Got an 'I like you and want to see you again' text.