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Who is aware that their DP watches porn?

108 replies

showsomeclass · 17/01/2016 09:33

And how do you feel about it?

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Branleuse · 18/01/2016 12:39

Mine watches it here and there. I dont see it as any of my business.

Weve watched it together in the past, ive watched it by myself and enjoyed it, but I dont really like it anymore since im more informed about the issues in the whole sex industry, and havent watched it for years, and I dont even think dp watches it much anymore tbh, but i dont consider it anything to do with me or our relationship if he does or not. We have discussed it though.

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donajimena · 18/01/2016 12:48

I don't know. I've never asked. Its none of my business.

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ShortandSweeter · 18/01/2016 15:39

..my ex girlfriend did. Didn't bother me as such. She used to send me video snippets that I ignored.

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LaPharisienne · 18/01/2016 18:03

DP watches it, I watch it, sometimes (rarely) we watch together.

I really minded when an ex told me he watched porn and got quite upset, but for some reason don't mind at all with DP. Think this is because we are very happy together, have a great sex life and, crucially, given the choice we'd always rather bonk each other (not implying that anyone who does mind isn't or doesn't or wouldn't of course - just my take).

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Fratelli · 18/01/2016 21:32

I know he does very occasionally. I don't care as we have a great sex life! In a healthy relationship you should both be able to masturbate however you choose. As long as it doesn't affect your relationship of course.

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viridus · 19/01/2016 10:29

So a chap uses porn and his wife/partner accepts it and they both see it as a harmless activity.

They both are willing to use other peoples bodies for their own gratification. When their own relationship gets into difficulties and their sex life becomes problematic, or a problem arises it is then logical to assume that they would have no qualms about having an affair.

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LaPharisienne · 19/01/2016 10:49

Lol - what a load of rubbish!

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PrimeDirective · 19/01/2016 17:21

viridus there is nothing logical in your assumption at all! You've made that up to fit your own opinion.

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