Thank you everyone for your honesty - quite a mixture of opinions!
I personally haven't watched porn for a couple of years. When I was with my previous DP, we did together quite a lot, and I know he did alone. This relationship wasn't particularly healthy though, or long term evidently - but I knew that all along and didn't pretend otherwise.
This relationship is completely different. It's loving and respectful, and the thought of watching porn with him feels wrong! I think I value the relationship too much to taint it. At the same time though, after a few drinks, I could probably be easily persuaded but am sure I would regret it in the morning
I wonder if I should bring the subject up gently. If he's going to do it, I'd rather know about it so I can at least gauge whether it is happening often or not. I can't stand the thought of him replacing being intimate with me with that. I'm interested to know what type of porn he watches too as that might be a problem to me if 'nasty'. What I found this morning was quite tame to be fair
I'm sure those anti-porn would disagree that any of it could be regarded as tame so sorry to those who do think that. I completely respect everyone's opinions. I am not aware of the backgrounds of some of the girls that do do it and if they are being abused (or have been) in any way then I feel bad. Perhaps I should educate myself a bit more!