Shall I divulge my disastrous last date?
We chatted on Tinder, had a few naughty conversations and arranged to go out on NYE. I was free last Monday and suggested we meet up for lunch. So we went to the pub, he bought the first round, we were then looking at food, I said I'd get the next drink but that I needed to get something to eat. He said what he wanted to drink, but then gave me his food order too. I was a bit gobsmacked that he expected me to pay for his food but let it ride, thinking it would possibly even up over the day.
We had a few more drinks then ended up at his place...he pretty much pounced on me as soon as we got in there and I admit I was drunk & horny so we DTD
(twice) although the second time he told me off for doing something he didn't like. (God this sounds worse by the minute). We were chatting about all kinds of stuff, and I'd told him previously that I wasn't offering exclusivity, but when I mentioned I'd been on a date with someone else he got all huffy.
So anyway, we went out for more drinks, got fairly rat arsed, we did take it in turns to buy rounds, then went back to his place for another shag. He then makes noises about me going home so I got dressed, he walked me to the bus stop but then left me there and went home.
After all this I asked him if we were still on for NYE and he said definitely. But during the day itself he was a bit pissy so eventually I asked him if he was looking forward to it, he replied 'not really if I'm honest' so I said 'shall I not bother then?' to which he replied that was probably for the best.
Haven't heard from him since and I'm fairly sure I dodged a bullet there. I didn't even like him that much but I was pissed off at being home on NYE!