Boyfriend on escort site

[SophieSuperStar]

Hi, all, i am very new to this site, recommended by my friend. this is my first post. So here goes...... i checked the history of our computer and found my boyfriend has been visiting a site called Adultwork. a site for escorts basically and visited a profile of a lady on there who "works" locally to us. I do not know how to bring it up, I am 99.9% sure he has visited the prostitute. :( what to do, advice please

If you found him on AW, he may have a user account with password saved in the PC etc. People who use escorts often leave reviews in AW - you can see if he has done that.

Even without access to his account you can see the escort's account and the reviews she received, you may recognise something.

Finding a review is a positive thing, you know it has happened. but not finding may just mean it happened but he didn't leave a review.

Let me tell you my story. My boyfriend did similar, I found him on similar site. I confronted him with my fake profile and he was in denial that it wasn't him and he was set up At that point I realised he will never admit even if called redhanded.
So I uploaded my full on profile on the same site, with photos (no face) and messaged him (as he pretended it was not him) that as my partner gave me permission for this, I will be having fun with all this site provides. The next thing I know he is randomly standing at my door with flowers of course he cannot admit he knows about my profile, as it is not him, and I don't say anything either.
The next few weeks I would randomly login to this site and I see him checking his abt once a day. Later on I hid my profile and he stopped logging in. He hasn't been on the site since.
It was a hard mad game I played but it gave me massive satisfaction to teach him a lesson, if he plays hard I will play harder. It took a bit of toll on my nerves too, but it worked. That's not to say he is not going to register on other sites.. but will deal with it when the time comes.

For clarity I don't believe anymore that men can be faithful. They will use any opportunity. They will deny everything too. I hope mine felt something when I was on that site with my boobs exposed, hope he has learnt something for himself. And I don't care so much anymore. He is good to me, but I will dump him if I feel like it. That's a hard life lesson learnt.

My goodness, I admire your balls terribly shaken.

I realise it's all a bit sick but I wasn't going to go down the usual confrontation - denial pattern. Knowledge made me feel powerful, and him weak.