Desperately Trying to Move On - My Divorce from Mr WT Part 3 - It's Nearly OVER!

[TheFormidableMrsC]

I am so grateful to all of those who have followed and supported me throughout this bloody ordeal! I hope this will be the last one.one and it will be over very soon! Thread 1 : www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2030270-PLEASE-HELP-DESPERATE-AND-AWFUL-DIVORCE?
Thread 2 : www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2137545-Whos-Desperate-and-Awful-Now-Story-of-My-Divorce-from-Mr-WT-Part-2

I have been lurking and watching all your threads and I am so sorry that you have had to cope with so much. We always hope that these human slugs will get there comeuppance - I hope yours do, even if they don't you have dealt with this bollocks with grace and dignity. At some point this will be in the past, you have and will survive and have been,and will continue to be, a fantastic mum to your kids. KOKO

Dear MrsC - you know I am, and will continue to be, one of your top supporters.

Please be sure that a woman who pretends to be your friend while she states that her heart 'bleeds for your little man' while she is secretly shacked up with your H, well she is never going to be a good woman nor a decent partner to anyone. I know MrC will never meet someone as wonderful as you, even if he had another 10 lifetimes to live. And the loss here is purely his. He has lost you and your DD and in time he will lose his relationship with his precious son. The cracks are already evident and they will be chipped further away by each ridiculous and short-sighted choice he makes. You however will go forth and soar. Your future is nothing but rosy and joy, of that I can be sure.

I will say one thing - your threads have gained you many loyal and wonderful friends from all walks of life. It is times like this that we see how wonderful Mumsnet can be. Everyone comes together and offers support and wisdom to strangers, and some of us have even become RL friends. So I am grateful that out of such ashes we have found some lovely new friends. I am proud to be part of #TeamMrsC and I will always continue to be so.

KOKO

MrsC I have lurked on all your threads with the occasional post. I went through my own very shit, child damaging break up 13 years ago but mine was NOTHING compared to what you have been put through. Reading your last few posts had me in tears.
You are an inspiration to a lot of people and I take my hat off to you.

MrsC . I truly salute you.

I am a very random poster, huge lurker, I found this board when my Dh announced his affair over 3 years ago.
I have read your posts from the beginning. But with such great support that everybody has given you, I kept myself a lurker.
You have shown yourself to be absolutely bloody amazing woman & Mum.
KOKO really epitomises you.

Your sad sack of a STBXH together with his dinosaur are a selfish, dishonest,disgrace of common decency, morals and standards. They really are low , they need all those trinkets they buy and the the alcohol to make themselves feel better than they show themselves to be.

But you - after everything thrown at you. You're still standing, they haven't broken the lioness you are with your children.
You have deservedly found many friends, support etc on here.

I wish you and your kids much happiness when you are finally untethered to the only thing that sounds like it has kept you down .

I'm in awe of you.

Enjoy your future .

Evening all, I didn't imagine that I would be updating so soon...

Firstly, I would like to say a HUGE thank you for the absolutely lovely and touching posts and PM's that I have received since I purged my soul last weekend. All have brought me to tears without exception. You're all bloody wonderful, you really are

I am here because I have a new date for the hearing, much much sooner than I thought, only a week on Tuesday, August 11th. The case has been re-listed. It has been relocated to a Crown Court some distance away because this is where the District Judge who heard the FDR sits and the Judge at the hearing last Friday said that the FDR Judge would have to hear it as it was he who said he wouldn't be including a remarriage clause.

I am afraid to speak too soon, but am so hopeful that this is the final step to me being rid of Mr WT and his malicious sidekick. The countdown to divorce and freedom commences....

Thank you all, as ever xxx

Good luck MrsC, wishing you courage and success. altho I don't post on your threads I've been one of the many who have been silently cheering you on.

Good news MrsC!
You have been amazing through all this, imagine how much more amazing you'll be when this isn't hanging over you! Will be thinking of you x

Good stuff, MrsC!

Can you claim costs from him for you having to travel to this new court due to his non appearance last week?

Fabulous news! May the judge bury him. Legally that is.

I will make a note to buy a pineapple on the 11th, out of solidarity.

I knew they were bad, I even used the naughty word I hate most, but never could I imagine they could be that........ cunty.
Anyway, here is Mr WT birthday present.

Fuzzy, Top and Agatha, thank you my darlings!

andthen...I can apply for a costs order...just need to work it out, lucky for Mr WT it's not the £20K I was quoted nor the probably £30K plus this would have cost down to having nine hearings...! He might have to sell a horse or some jewellery or get rid of the 50 bottle wine cooler.....

acat...please do darling, I am very grateful

Ajaney I know, totally cunty...and really I didn't even touch the sides with that lot, I really didn't. Mr WT's birthday is in October..I am sure he will love them

I should just say, kids and I are fine, we've planned loads of stuff over the summer holidays with several breaks away all because we have amazing family and friends...so that's something to look forward to..

On the other hand, DS has been regaling me with tales of how much Daddy hits OW's dog with violent actions and everything...how lovely...poor dog..

Oh hurrah for an early court date! I expect the court people are just as sick of MrWT's arsing around, and can't wait to be shot of him!

Everything crossed that it all goes your way, my lovely - you deserve it.

Nasty about the poor dog though... :(

De lurking.
You have been on my watch list since the start of your journey. Keep going. As ex Cafcass I applaud what you are doing and all your previous actions.

You are an inspiration.

Keep it up, stay strong, you have support.

Hurrah for an early court date and a swift end to his buffoonery!

I'm so pleased for the early court date.
I hope it doesn't disrupt your summer plans.

Good luck!

Thank you everybody for lovely posts

I will of course update when I have some news x

I like the idea of a pineapple monitor myself. Someone to ensure that MrsC has enough pineapples backing her up on the Internet, or something.

I will make sure to scoff some pineapple chunks at work on the 11th.

With apologies to the late and lovely Annette Funicello.

I think the MrsC Admiration Society Glee Club should gather on the courthouse steps and sing in 4 part harmony.

I reckon supermarkets monitor pineapple sales, y'know. You can just imagine someone in Tesco's Head Office saying "Oh, FFS, MrsC is back in court next week, order more pineapples". And somewhere, deep in the bowels of Sainsbury's someone going 'oh, I wonder why pineapple sales keep peaking every three months or so...'

And out in the Asian farmlands, some pineapple farmer saying to the Waitrose Purchasing Boffin:..."FFS pineapples don't grow on trees y'know"...

I also wonder what happens if you fail to turn up to court twice? I mean once is unfortunate, twice is carless.

Sorry, typo: careless.

Anyway, Morrison's does a mighty range in pineapples - last time I got two for 50p each. So happy to buy one for you theDrugs as long as that works very well for you.

Hi Mrs C:

I hope things go your well and you get the divorce asap. Your ex and his minion won't last long imo.

TheDrugs, I couldn't disappear again without acknowledging your post...now that would be a first, a McKenzie Friend via Skype...ha ha! I do wish I could get away with that! Thanks for your lovely words .

Across, I love it! .

WWK good God, I hope he doesn't do a "no show" this time. I can't be doing with this going on for much longer , I've got a life to live, y'know...two years is a long time to waste on a pair of shits!!

Butterflies thank you my lovely! Me too, my birthday is in just over a months' time, I sincerely hope I am officially a single woman by then, it will be the best birthday present ever. I never imagined that when I filed the petition on the grounds of my husband's & OW's adultery that he would drag this out for so bloody long. He did pretend to be gay at one point to try and get it overturned. It's just such a yawn fest now, it really is. Personally, I hope they last forever. Best punishment for both of them she ain't seen nothin' yet

I will keep you posted, promise! Have a lovely weekend everybody xx