Hook up sites

[NoMoreMrRight]

So, been single for three years following my divorce. A very high sex drive, and I've been online dating (POF, Match etc) for about two years. Completely fed up of the bad manners, fickleness even when trying to find a FB.... I read earlier another thread about someone looking for NSA sex and some posters recommended going down the hook up site route as it apparently there's a lot less messing around etc..

I have tried POF etc in the past searching for 'only sex/something casual' profiles but although I got a FB for a couple of months out of it, it was still the same BS as when trying to find a relationship.

So, any recs for hook up/casual sex sites? Ideally one where I can just post some headless full body length pictures and then privately message the ones showing my face to any potentials (I live in a small village and I rather be discrete about all this).

Thanks in advance

Thank you good really helpful post. I have kept my open profile with no pics, then full body and a tasteful saucy one for 'friends', then a face selfie for private messages. I've been winking the ones I like the look of, but thinking about it I probably better just email them with access to my 'friends' gallery.

I'm surprised though at how few are the guys just interested in women; most of them are also aiming for couples (which I guess being Fabswingers.com shouldn't be that much of a surprise! )

One more question ..... is the norm to first meet just for a coffee/drink and see if you like each other or is it assumed that if you like each other to hook up there and then? Quite a few comments on the feedback notes about just having met for dinner etc....

My ex was on adult friend finder. Think he had quite a bit of success with it other than getting caught

Sorry to hear that Dont

A friend has used ashleymadison.com and derived great enjoyment from it. It sells itself as being for married cheats but this has the benefit of everyone being discreet and there are plenty, plenty of singles on it too.

And yes, it's perfectly normal to meet for a coffee first to see if it might be possible to take things further.

Or just stand on a street corner and wait for someone in a smart car to pull up and make an offer. Might as well get paid for it, eh?

I'm confused - why does the fact the OP misses sex mean she would want to take up prostitution? What a very odd comment.

I'm thinking...Bessie's been burnt by a cheat, and is currently in the 'all women who want no-strings sex are whores' phase.

Bessie I've got the Middle Ages on the phone. They'd like their attitudes back!

Ffs! Op take no notice of that. Do not be ashamed of wanting and missing sex

Jesus Christ Bessie, what is wrong with you ?

I'm going to use that phrase from now BOOP

Bessie - that's not a nice comment, why would you say that? A woman is entitled to know what she wants without being judged!

I agree with you all. .. What a very spiteful thing to say Bessie. I'll leave it at that before I say something I regret. Completely out of order.

Holy shit I joined

Bessie - you're an arse.

I'm male and have joined. Any tips on writing a good profile ladies?

AdultFriendFinder is quite affordable and has some good features. I've had good luck with it in the past.

Quick update from me. Meeting someone for a quick coffee on Friday morning; his pictures are really good so hoping it will go well!

And if you ignore all the crude pictures, it's actually been so far a more civilised and respectful experience than on POF etc. Everyone is very upfront about what they want and they're perfectly polite when you tell them you don't think they're what you're looking for (refreshing when you compare it to the usual tirade of abuse from men on POF/Match under the same circumstances). Yes lots of married men around but being honest about it and ok with me saying I'm not comfortable seeing them.

I'm finding that too, the ladies seem a lot more friendly than on PoF. Pleased I heard about this site.

Purely out of curiosity I have just had a look at that site...wow...you certainly get an idea of what you are going to get when it comes to undressing.

I saw a very nice looking fella in the army whose last picture was most certainly impressive!

How did you manage to see without joining up Sickoffrozen? It wouldn't let me!

I've just had a very exciting phone call with a lovely older gentleman!
Certainly made my afternoon!

Tell us more Lipgloss! When did you start messaging, any plans to meet up?

My 'date' for Friday is err....very well endowed. Beautiful body too, and a nice face, can't wait to see if it goes anywhere. Best female friend very v jealous Lol

Dare I??!!
He seemed nice but is now messaging me to meet tonight, I have politely declined twice the third time I have to I may not be so nice!