Vague question

[KnockMeDown]

Sorry for the vague question, but I would be grateful if you could indulge me.

If you saw some photos of a man and a woman, in bathrobes at a spa, taken of each other, then close together in a spa pool, then a photo of their feet entwined in the spa pool, would you suspect that they were sleeping together, or were just mates?

Thank-you

[Charlie97]

Knock - what proof do you need? You're uncomfortable about a husband who has already proved that he can't be trusted and has had an affair having intimate photos with another woman! That alone is too far and you should be calling him on it. He's hardly working towards making you feel secure is he?

Get out,get your freedom, self respect and happiness back x

[BitOutOfPractice]

AF is right. You won't get a full confession. I suspect that even if you caught him in bed with her he would still deny.

You know anyway

And even if you didn't you are unhappy enough to leave anyway.

Your dad can still adore her dad. You just don't have to put up with his shit

[sandgrown]

This happened to.me years ago and my biggest mistake was blurting it all out before getting things in order. Ex-DH emptied our bank account. Please get everything in order first. Get all important documents together and keep pictures of the Facebook stuff if you can. Figure out how you want the separation to work then hit him with it!. Good luck. Please try and get angry to.protect yourself .

[theaftermath]

OP - how are you?

[onlyif]

Hope you are ok op?