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Mooncups and Anal Sex Ooh er

122 replies

ATempName · 21/03/2015 15:14

Simple question really. Can you have anal sex if you have a mooncup inserted up your vagina? Would it still be comfortable?

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VernonGodLittle · 22/03/2015 09:40

I'm afraid to say I didn't get anything out of it Moon. Unless you count the sore back and thighs and a shit covered condom in the bin. Sad

NoArmaniNoPunani · 22/03/2015 09:49

I'm amazed people can't poo with a mokncup in! Never a problem for me. Those who can't- can you also feel it when it's in?

No I don't feel it when it's in but there definitely isn't space for me to have something filling my vagina and something filling my bum at the same time. I'd be useless at double penetration.

EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 22/03/2015 09:49

Good workout then?

VernonGodLittle · 22/03/2015 09:59

You're right Eric. Good workout. Always look for the positives. and ignore the shitty condom in the bin

RolodexOfHate · 22/03/2015 10:18

Isn't saying that 'your anus is only for pooing, your bum is only sitting on' kind of homophobic? You're judging that the way that two men can have penetrative sex as wrong. Doesn't sit well with me, even if I understand that you might not want to have anal sex yourself.

WildBillfemale · 22/03/2015 10:23

Isn't saying that 'your anus is only for pooing, your bum is only sitting on' kind of homophobic? You're judging that the way that two men can have penetrative sex as wrong. Doesn't sit well with me, even if I understand that you might not want to have anal sex yourself

Trust someone to come along and blow all the romance out of the thread

YonicScrewdriver · 22/03/2015 10:25

I don't think so, Rolodex - AFAIK some gay couples have anal sex, some don't.

EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 22/03/2015 10:27

Isn't saying that 'your anus is only for pooing, your bum is only sitting on' kind of homophobic?

Yeah, it is. And completely narrow minded and wrong.

Your nipples are only for baby feeding!
Your vagina is only for baby delivering!
Orgasms are only for procreation!
Your mouth is only for eating!

What a load of prescriptive nonsense. We can choose to include whatever body parts we like into our sex lives and as long as we are having fun who the hell needs to have an opinion on it? If something feels good sexually then there is no reason not to do it (usual caveats of SSC notwithstanding)

EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 22/03/2015 10:28

Just because some gay men don't have anal sex doesn't preclude the above statement (arses are for sitting on) from being homophobic

RolodexOfHate · 22/03/2015 10:35

I know that not all gay men have anal sex. But disapproving of the method in which many of them do is homophobic.

I don't care about any 'romance' in this thread. I've seen something which immediately made me feel uncomfortable. I don't sit at home thinking up ways in which I could try to be offended. I am offended by that statement.

YonicScrewdriver · 22/03/2015 10:35

Hmm, you could be right Ehric. I will think about that.

I don't think it's a useful statement anyway!

YonicScrewdriver · 22/03/2015 10:36

I don't think the thread is aiming for romance, Rolodex!

EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 22/03/2015 10:50

I think wildbill was being sarcastic

But I agree with you. It's a homophobic and also pretty dim thing to say.

PilchardPrincess · 22/03/2015 11:01

Surely it's analphobic when taken in the context of a thread started by a heterosexual woman who likes anal sex and responded to by other women who like it. + at least one who has had a go at pegging?

Bottom line (lol) is that it's not on to slate anyone for mutually enjoyable consensual activities but actually having just said that there is a line but anal sex most certainly does not cross it.

HermioneWeasley · 22/03/2015 11:09

Still laughing at GingerMum's alternative lyrics. I will NEVER be able to hear that song again

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ATempName · 22/03/2015 14:28

Gosh the thread has certainly grown. Thank you all for your contributions.

Thank you Glittertits for sticking up for me (ha ha), regarding the biology of the whole thing, explaining how the two orifices are very close together etc and therefore one would affect the other. I too find the mooncup moves when I have a poo, as others on here said it did for them too.

Thank you all for your thoughts and experiences. As someone said, everyone's body is different so it is worth giving it a go and seeing how it turns out. Sorry I can't update you as yet, I am sure you would all have loved to find out how it went Grin

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AmIbeingTreasonable · 22/03/2015 19:16

So anal sex with a mooncup in could be described as, the earth didn't move, but the mooncup certainly did! Grin

debka · 22/03/2015 19:54

I did this last night.

It was awesome.

Thank you for giving me the chance to share- perfect thread for me!

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ATempName · 22/03/2015 19:58

Great debka. In what way was it awesome?

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BernadetteMatthews · 22/03/2015 20:09

If you want a stiffy up your pooper, take the mooncup out of your woofer.

wineandpopcorn · 22/03/2015 20:20

Does a mooncup go up your bum?

Coumarin · 22/03/2015 20:54

This thread is all over Twitter. Just a heads up. So to speak.

Ouchbloodyouch · 22/03/2015 21:01

Bernadette Grin

Ouchbloodyouch · 22/03/2015 21:03

How do you find it on twitter

vienna1981 · 22/03/2015 21:21

wine and popcorn. The vagina is the usual spot for a mooncup but be adventurous, put it where you like.