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Mooncups and Anal Sex Ooh er

122 replies

ATempName · 21/03/2015 15:14

Simple question really. Can you have anal sex if you have a mooncup inserted up your vagina? Would it still be comfortable?

OP posts:
crje · 21/03/2015 15:56

Take the cup out first
Why does it need to be left in ?

Surely you can't be squeamish Grin

ATempName · 21/03/2015 15:56

Well it's cheered me up this afternoon, anyway, RubbishMantra. Grin

OP posts:
catnipkitty · 21/03/2015 15:59

Trying not to snort at the comments as the kids are in the room and they'll ask what I'm laughing at!

emwithme · 21/03/2015 15:59

You can but it's the oddest feeling in the world - not necessarily unpleasant, but definitely best described as "odd" for both of us. For me, it put pressure on my g-spot from an upward angle, DH said he could feel it and also described it as odd...there was a ridge where there wasn't normally one.

However,it has gone down as "one of those things we tried once and aren't doing again".

MajesticWhine · 21/03/2015 16:07

emwithme is the intersection on the venn diagram (for that is what it is called)

ATempName · 21/03/2015 16:09

emwithme Bingo!! Thank you. Finally, someone who has tried it. A ridge eh? I say. Grin

I may be the same as you and try it but perhaps not revisit.

I can now rest easy, my work is done.

Thank you all.

OP posts:
ATempName · 21/03/2015 16:10

Intersection yes. Thank you MajesticWhine.

OP posts:
kittensinmydinner · 21/03/2015 17:10

I think there is a WI England forum on this very subject, just below the Quince jam article....

Justwhy · 21/03/2015 17:14

Can I just say that the suggestion of ringing customer services and asking is one of the most wonderful things I have read on Mumsnet.

TheImprobableGirl · 21/03/2015 19:23

Should I not be holding on for a thread update??
Ill have to make sure I stay off the wine tonight or obviously this will be first and foremost in my mind!

Koalafications · 21/03/2015 19:28

Up the bum sex? No, thank you.

Up the bum sex whilst on my period? Hmm

cleanmyhouse · 21/03/2015 20:36

yes you can and yes it would.

*waves at everyone unashamedly.

Wink
newnamesamegame · 21/03/2015 20:40

Is this just a theoretical question or are you actually planning this?

womaninthewildsofwales · 21/03/2015 20:48

Arf, DP is lucky to get back door action at all- even he isn't stupid enough to suggest "well seeing as one hole's out of action let try the other while you're a moody ball of aches and pains that won't step away from the chocolate without a psychotic episode" Shock

vienna1981 · 21/03/2015 21:21

Bottoms are for four things only:

Sitting on

Shitting out of

Scratching

Spanking

AND NOTHING ELSE. PERIOD Angry

EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 21/03/2015 21:33

If god didn't want us to have bum sex he wouldn't have made it fun.

Mooncupshagger · 21/03/2015 21:33

I once had PIV sex with mooncup in. Not on purpose! But I would fully expect it to be possible up the arse.

However if you're looking to just keep things less messy, have you tried sea pearls/jam sponges? Great for period sex and would be more... Flexible... When putting things in other orifice. I'd imagine. With a new partner now and only just exploring more adventurous bedroom activities Grin

glittertits · 21/03/2015 21:35

OP, I'm with you. I enjoy anal from time to time.

No way to know except to try it! I don't use a moon cup, so I'm no help here. I too would be worried about squishing it and it spilling.

HollyBdenum · 21/03/2015 21:37

Actually there is a sort of tampon like a squishy marshmallow that you can keep in during PIV sex.

HollyBdenum · 21/03/2015 21:44

They are basically shaped synthetic sponges. There are a couple of brands, but if you google "soft tampons" you will find them.

passthewineplz · 21/03/2015 21:48

Think you need a biology lesson OP, they're 2 completely differnt holes. So yes it's possible! [rolls eyes] Shock

ElsieMc · 21/03/2015 21:49

What about the armpit thing the subject of a thread on here not long ago? No mooncup problems there.

Alternatively visualise Dana singing the lyrics posted above in her sincere, earnest and moist eyed way. That should put you off for a few days.

Shinyshoes2 · 21/03/2015 21:49

I'm confused
How do the two intermingle ?
Is it like a U bend or something ?

lunalelle · 21/03/2015 21:50

I would probably use a mini- tampon if it were me. Mooncup was awfully uncomfy and cystitis/thrush inducing even without any sexytime (waste of twenty quid, bah!).

glittertits · 21/03/2015 21:51

For everybody confused - the two holes are not too far apart. If you had a finger in each hole, you could feel through the skin.

OP is concerned that pressure from hole two will make her mooncupped-vag uncomfy, spill, dig in etc.