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Dear VNXH

502 replies

WellWhoKnew · 11/02/2015 15:55

Dear VNXH,

I am pondering about pondersome things. What are you doing, I ponder?

The SHL is contemplating the latest bit of fuckwittery from a legaltastic viewpoint.

I merely remain navel gaze in a reflective sort of manner. My mind continually mulls over and over, in a ruminatory sort of manner.

I am pleased to report that fuck all has happened to day except I got on with some shit.

Woman, thoughtful.

OP posts:
Anniegetyourgun · 18/03/2015 09:46

Don't knock vegetables, Bogeyface. They're essential ingredients in champagne and gin.

Lemonylemon · 18/03/2015 10:00

WWK Well done you. Now the period of reflection and, I imagine, quiet time starts. It's been such a tough fight for you. Now you deserve a rest.... x

acatcalledjohn · 18/03/2015 10:02

Good morning, free lady WWK! How does it feel to wake up as a free lady?

Annie, what veg would go in champagne? I get the cucumber/gin link, but champagne?

Anniegetyourgun · 18/03/2015 10:07

Well, fruit then - vegetable matter anyway. Not meat. And yeast is um... um... not meat.

Allergictoironing · 18/03/2015 13:13

Yeast are fungi, so related to mushrooms (mmm mushrooms).

acatcalledjohn · 18/03/2015 13:37

I suppose it's one of your 5 a day on the basis is made of grapes.

Any excuse Grin

familyofthree2014 · 18/03/2015 14:06

Just caught up. Wow, I too shed a tear at your last post but also at the overwhelming support you have received. You have touched so many lives with your story and you truly are an amazing woman.

Saying 'congratulations' feels odd but I am so happy that you should be able to find a level of peace now. You can take time to grieve on your own terms and decide what you are going to do for you, no-one else, just you. Well done and thank you for all the support you have shown me over the months x

MrsPigling · 18/03/2015 16:14

Hurrah! so glad the legal bit is over and you can start the rest of your life.

StarStarStarStarStar

ineedabodytransplant · 18/03/2015 16:49

WWK,

on behalf of decent blokes (and there are quite a few of us contrary to poular belief) I want to congratulate you on..............

shafting the bastard Grin

Pity you can't 'accidently' post his image everywhere so hecan't succker another woman in to his web. Or, if we ever see him crossing a road we could run him over

mistlethrush · 18/03/2015 20:10

Hurrah! You're free of him - and sounds as though you did well too! MrsC if you ever need some suggestions for easy shared meal options let me know!

Jux · 18/03/2015 22:21

Well done WWK CakeBrewWineGrin

iwashappy · 18/03/2015 22:59

So relieved that it is finally over for you, well done on standing your ground and getting your settlement.

For a "weak and clueless" woman you have come a long way, helping and inspiring many women along the way. It may not have been what you wanted but you have handled everything he has thrown your way brilliantly.

Wishing you all the best and lots of Wine

Lioninthesun · 19/03/2015 12:19

Wonderful work WWK! Spring has sprung in many forms for you I feel Grin Flowers

FlossyMoo · 19/03/2015 17:40

I have read your threads with awe and I am so pleased you got the result you deserved. You are an amazing women and I wanted to thank you for sharing your journey. I hope others will read your threads and find comfort and strength in them.

Today is the start of your new life and I congratulate you on your new birthday Wine

Justatoe · 20/03/2015 21:24

Wishing you a great future pursuing your personal ambitions, unencumbered by fuckwittery.
I am in the midst of the same process and hope I can deal with it with the same dignity & clarity you have Wine

mineofuselessinformation · 20/03/2015 21:36

I would imagine you're still reeling from all of this and taking stock.
But, if you feel like it, do come back and tell us all how you are.

Karenthetoadwhisperer · 22/03/2015 14:59

Well done and good luck with your book, WWK. xxx

MeerkaRIPSirTerry · 22/03/2015 16:13

How you doing now wwk?

Wine
Paperblank · 29/03/2015 18:58

Just dropping by to see how you are - been and bought a lot of gin today (on offer in tescoWink ) and you popped into my thoughts.

Hope all is sunny in your world.

Karenthetoadwhisperer · 12/05/2015 22:46

Bump Smile

TheFormidableMrsC · 12/05/2015 23:48

I am absolutely sure that WWK will not mind me saying that she is absolutely fine and in the process of recovering from the exploits of Mr SW. I too hope she pops back soon to post Smile

Anniegetyourgun · 12/05/2015 23:58

I think you two should get married.

TheFormidableMrsC · 13/05/2015 09:06

Ha ha ha Annie...we probably would if we were that way inclined! She's fab Grin

Anniegetyourgun · 13/05/2015 09:36

Those of us who haven't had the pleasure of meeting her in person are quite prepared to believe you! You could marry though, you wouldn't be compelled by law to shag each other, you could agree to date guys... but yeah, that would be silly. You should become business partners, perhaps in a pineapple farm.

TheFormidableMrsC · 13/05/2015 09:58

Brilliant! Pineapple Farm! That has made me laugh this morning!!