Dear VNXH

[WellWhoKnew]

Dear VNXH,

I am pondering about pondersome things. What are you doing, I ponder?

The SHL is contemplating the latest bit of fuckwittery from a legaltastic viewpoint.

I merely remain navel gaze in a reflective sort of manner. My mind continually mulls over and over, in a ruminatory sort of manner.

I am pleased to report that fuck all has happened to day except I got on with some shit.

Woman, thoughtful.

Delurking to give you a massive round of applause. You are truly awesome.

Many congratulations on the end of a nightmare, and the start of a better life. May you have every success and happiness owing to you xxxx

well done on the settlement and congratulations.

I hope you can now move forward in the way that you want to.

All the best to you for a future on your own terms.

May I add my congratulations to you, to an outcome which is yours alone, on your terms.

Dignified, tenacious, humorous, human and a woman who has given more to others than she realises. WWK -

All along, you've had to bow to his way of doing things....
But, today, you did things your way. And what a spectacular way it was.
I suspect GG had your measure all along (and was probably hoping that you would stand up and tell Mr SW 'up yours' in legalese.)
You've made me cry, you know, but I don't mind.
WWK, you rock.

I knew that the van with SHB on the side that I saw as I drove home was a good omen.

When it came to the wire, it really was up to you. Well done!

Oh, well done, WWK! I hope you sleep well tonight.

You're an absolute

Fanbloodytastic - I am so pleased that now you can take time to take stock, with a large G&T, and get ready for a brand new, and very bright, future. Without the worry of xh around the corner.

WWK you are fantastic, marvellous and altogether bloody brilliant!

I am weeping on the bus like a loon. FeckING hormones. You lady are quite something else. Balls of steel, brain like a trap, patience of Job and the pen skills of Jane Austen (but with more swearing). I applaud you WWK.

Well done WWK ! so glad you got what you needed

Well done WWK. I've been lurking since your threads began and I just wanted to delurk to say that I admire your strength. I wish you a happy future away from Mr SW!

I feel most humbled to have followed your story along with dozens of other posters and lurker a alike right from those early days, counting down with you to your hearing dates and being behind you (albeit quietly) every step of the way.

You did do good today and long may you keep doing good! Today, or rather tomorrow, really is the first day of the rest of your life; a new day and the start of a new chapter for you.

I wish you all the happiness in the world WWK

WWK, I am so, so pleased for you - and wish you all the best for your bright, shiny new life.

I shed a little tear on the train on the way home reading this thread - apologies to my fellow commuters from the the sniffing blonde in the corner.

MrsC - good luck to you too, and I fervently hope I will one day be able to come on here and say that I, who is in the midst of STBX's fuckwittery, am divorced, too.

Well done WWK.

BatshitCrazyWoman, thank you for your good wishes, if you ever want to drop in on my thread, please feel free, you'd be very welcome to share continued fuckwittery with me at any time! We'll get there....

Back to the subject in hand......

Wow, you're amazing WWK.

well done WWK. So glad you can move on now xxx

I have lurked and (under various name changes) have wished you well. Good luck for the future.

I think I speak for all of us when I say we want you to write us a book. We will all buy it.

I've been lurking on your thread, MrsC. You are formidable, you know

Oh hallelujah wwk you must be exhausted surely holiday must be in order

I think we need a new section called the First Wives Club

Another lurker, rushed home to read update. Absolutely super news, I also she a little tear.

WWK I salute you!

it's been a good day. Well done x

WWK, I feel like standing up on my kitchen table and shouting 'O captain my captain' after reading your post at 18:14.

You're an inspiration and I'm truly glad that you have closure and vindication today.