Do you want to text him?
Texting can lead to many wasted hours, swapping messages where you dont really find out much about each other, and it can build a sense of 'knowing them' when you dont. Why not suggest to him a phone call?
Who was it who said about 9 weeks is the point where you sort of work out if you want to take things futher? I think its about then too, maybe 3 months, at that point people start to relax and be themselves rather than the best version of themselves.
Match is dire. I wont even be logging back on. Swapped a few messages with a guy last night and he says he wants to ask me some questions, so, i say fine. First question is what sort of dog i have. I reply. He comes back with ' Im glad you said that, i would have been really worried if you had said a staffy or lurcher'
I replied: ' why? surely you arent going to make an opinion on me based on a stereotype of a dog breed which mostly isnt true anyway'
He came back with that he was, but that it was nice to see a women with opinions.
I did not reply.
He came back a few hours later saying he had never been challenged like that before and cant believe he was challenged by a woman.
Jesus wept.
Honestly, i get far more shit on ' proper paid sites' where people think people would be serious about a relationship, than i do on the likes of tinder, where you both have to ' like' each other before you can chat.