This is pretty needy is'nt it? Is it a red flag?

[yellowdettol]

I've been dating a guy for a few months. The other day we were in his kitchen when someone mentioned the Brownies/Girl Guides on the radio and I said "Oh I loved being in the Brownies! It was one of the happiest times of my life".

My boyfriend then said, "What do you mean? Happier than now we are together?" and he seemed quite cross about it. I was abit by this outburst and asked if he was being serious. He was. I felt really uncomfortable and thought what a dickish thing to say.

What do others think?

Somewhat similar to Yo, I ended one relationship because of a range of nagging feelings and neediness on his part. I had come off an abusive relationship where I had disregarded such warnings.
It was hard to end it, and I still wonder if I was unreasonable, but that is better than the divorce I went through, and still am locked in because of DS.