a hole different kind of sex

[snoopdoggy]

I don't like olives. let one slip in once in a mouthful. find them the most revolting food anyone could eat. But yet others find them delicious. Maybe my tastebuds are unadventurous. You could advise me to try them in a variety of ways scenarios , but I wouldn't believe you and stay ignorant to this delicacy....

So if we all have different tastes and if:

It's a given that loving sex is the best kind of sex and we all feelclose and intimate.

It's a given that some couples want to spice up their sex life by introducing toys/positions/clothing/massage/s&mand likes. Intimate but fun between consensual adults.

It's a given that some couples want to try threesomes/swing etc. and say if you have a good solid trustworthy relationship this can keep a relationship healthy and long lasting.

But anal sex is something that from the boards here I am feeling that is a violation and unnatural. That it is the man that would primarily want this. Is this the general consensus or a delicacy that you just don't want to try ever.

OP: I take it that you're new to MN?

Not meant in a troll hunty way. More a 'here's someone who hasn't been here on a Friday yet' way.

Please stop it, I'm in bed and I could now kill for some bread and olives. Mmmmm!

olive oil however...........might help

Nah, it's not for me, tried it once didn't like it, but whatever floats your boat as they say! I tried to give a bit of tit for tat but he wasn't up for that , I wonder why?

Nah- you need to do a bit more MN homework. Youve posted a bumsex thread on a monday asking for others to share their opinions without a)being a regular and b) sharing your own thoughts first. It dont work like that pet. surely you know you cant just plough in there?

I'd stick with the olives (love them), but I understand some women might prefer it the other way around.

But, as it's mostly women posting here and it's usually complaining about something, you mostly get complaints that their men want anal and they don't.

sorry sillymilly.

no i'm not new at all. just a n/c a few weeks back.
i didn't realise there was a protocol for certain topics. I'm genuinely interested as I have an opinion myself and what i read somewhere else shocked me. It made me feel that my opinion was wrong. And i found that a little blindsighted and a little offensive. In particular if it was someone who might not have 'tried the olive' let's say.

If your tongue's in your cheek I think you're doing it wrong....

I know lots of women who love anal sex!!

im not one of them, but am frequently told by some of my friends how im missing out.

I'm really confused

Is this an olive thread, or an anal sex thread?

I prefer kalamata olives, if you must know.

What if it's virgin olive oil?

As long as it's optional and not compulsory, who cares. That goes for eating olives as well.

This thread is just making me hungry, which i suspect was unintentional

I'm not tho cog and also if i put down my opinion first. I'll be automatically categorised.
I do not expect anyone to give out their grand secrets. I am interested in their opinion, i think if something could be discussed with a bit of tongue in cheek but also honestly of how people feel about it then there is nothing wrong with that.

Try putting 'Centre parcs' into advanced search. OP.

You'll get quite a different feeling about bumsex. But not dressed with olives.

Not overly keen on it, having tried it a couple of times. But don't feel it is a violation. It's just a bit of fun.

crap , cog was winding me up... ok so i get the monday now protocol now... i wouldn't have picked up on that on a friday..

Seems a bit odd to imagine you can get a 'consensus' from a forum with such a large membership.

Well if you're above board snoop and are participating with both hands on the keyboard, maybe try again without the bizarre analogy. Say where you stand and ask a reasonable question.

"Delicacy"

I think we have here a man who has read "The Joy of Sex"

give it a whirl snoopdoggy you may find you like it!

do you have a beard?

I sometimes enjoy anal sex.
I know lots of women and men who enjoy anal sex.

It's quite insulting to have it be called "unnatural". It's not a violation unless it's a violation. I have no idea what makes consensual anal sex any less "natural" than vaginal sex (usually using contraception to actively avoid babies!). What makes the latter so "natural"? Even our sexual desire is somewhat a product of society but ignoring that and accepting that "sex drive" is natural, there seems no logical reason for only PIV sex is the natural way to satisfy that desire. Do you feel the same about oral sex? No underlying biological function there but it's not unnatural for us to enjoy giving or receiving it? Or perhaps it is...

"In particular if it was someone who might not have 'tried the olive' let's say."

I didn't know that trying the olive was a euphemism for anal; next time I'm online dating I'll be watching for the olive lovers in their profiles.

I really want some olives now. Anal sex not so much, but a bowl of olives yes please!