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Being ignored by boyfriend

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St29 · 17/11/2014 11:23

For the 2nd time in 6 weeks my boyfriend of 4 months is ignoring me. I've done nothing wrong. He's just stressed from work, from his ex playing games with contact with kids, and a bad cold. Why do men think this us acceptable ?

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Hissy · 19/11/2014 20:49

ta AF, am doing online dating and living in hope.

currently planning first meeting with MrFrancais from Paris. ooh la la. if it works out.. you're Aaaaaaaalllllll invited to le mariage..

I couldn't have even got this far without mumsnet and you tbh AF as you know! coming up for 4 years of freedom/happiness/hope/growth now!

Hissy · 19/11/2014 20:51

st so add cheating liar to his 'cv'

well shot love, well, well, well shot!

(((hug)))

AnyFucker · 19/11/2014 20:53

I shan't buy a hat just yet Smile

St29 · 19/11/2014 21:58

I felt awful after I had key back he was hugging and kissing me and said he will text later, still waiting for that lol! Had a few moments of feeling down but feel a relief too. I took control

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Walkacrossthesand · 19/11/2014 22:03

Hold onto that feeling st, he'll expect you to be sitting moping waiting for his call, and to leap to his side when he beckons. Make 'no' mean 'no' this time - it's time to get off this particular hamster wheel, walk away and don't be pulled back. Decide to do it now, and stick with it!

St29 · 19/11/2014 22:45

Yes I'm definetly off the wheel. It is the end now

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Hissy · 20/11/2014 07:36

expect a few wobbbles, but remind yourself of the truth, post here if you need to and keep going!

St29 · 20/11/2014 08:14

Yes I will, it gives me strength

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