Secrets we want to tell but can't

[LizzieBelle]

There was a thread on here a few months ago which was full of confessions and secrets that we can't tell in real life...My secret is that I know the neighbour on one side of me is having a naughty affair with the neighbour on the other side of me. As soon and the husband goes to work and the kids go to school she's off with the single dad on the other side of me...

Has anyone else got a secret??

I don't blame you Phal I wouldn't keep stuff like that quiet neither.

I just got the kitty/singer/summer holiday one! I did NOT see that coming!

My nan will be devastated if/when that comes out.

Ok, here's mine. Ex bil is not the natural father of my dsis children. Neither is he on their birth certificates despite them being married at the time of the youngest child's birth. He knows this, so has my admiration for raising the children regardless but no one else knows. He's not a decent man hence why ex bil, and would rather watch TV than parent, but stuck by dsis. Neither the children or any other relatives know. Dsis told me the natural fathers (all different men) but ex bil doesn't know I know he isn't their natural father.

OMG I dread to think who else is going to come out of the woodwork if this squeaky clean person is involved

Surely no one would admit to shagging Beiber?

Not if you're over 16!

As for kitty, he has had for decades a house in the country where I live now. I wonder now if he ever got involved in the pedophile ring that went to court a few years ago.

I suspect there's quite a lot to come out of the woodwork, and not all male although the majority will be.

The real question is- can they make any of the charges stick and will their names be revealed to the public?

I find it quite sickening that a lot of these high profile offenders seem to be protected from their crimes. How is this allowed to happen? It's very scary to think that they may never be held accountable when they probably ruined so many lives.

Anyway, back to secrets...

I know my mum will be devastated to hear about kitty.

I hinted at him being gay recently and she was all up in arms "you shouldn't believe what you read in the papers" attitude.

She's just become a silver surfer, so might suggest she ^doesn't" google certain words. I can guarantee she will, then.

My dsis will be upset too. I always assumed he was gay, but this...
Some of those websites that came up though if you google kitty-one if you read on was def an extreme right wing absolute wing nut site. Lots of conspiracy freaks out there.

Allegedly, the tennis singer has had multiple gagging orders, injunctions and publicity black outs put in place over the years. But he was named on the Elm house (kitty) official list, wasn't he.
Certainly does give room for thought why it's been reported that he has renounced his UK nationality.Although afaik - Barbados has a extradition treaty with the UK??

I have also heard about the tennis fan, and that there are another couple of very famous people who are also closely watched in relation to Operation Yewtree.

Just googled all that stuff and ended up on a very disturbing site full of details about another gay famous singer, a senior royal, all sorts.

A friend of a friend's exDH had a fling with my BF a few months before they got married. I was with her when they first got off with each other, and only found out who he was when I strolled into a pub to watch my friend sing and he nearly disappeared up his own backside when our eyes met!

Barbados has a extradition treaty with the UK? its no so straightforward as some.. it looks like extradition from Barbados has to go through the high court and the secretary of state before a request is made ..

Thanks Laska - I couldn't find a definitive answer when I had a quick google before.

Im disappointed by my boss and feel betrayed by my best friend. I fucking hate my job sometimes.

A good friend of mine has a home in Cyprus, and she said the kitty singer is there all the time and he is one nasty piece of work. She said what he gets up to would leave everyone repulsed.

That you Miss Convivial, Miss Perfect at Church with your two wonderful kiddies and your smug graciousness ;asked me ( 15 years ago) if I'd kindly give he a lift home as she was sooop tired.
" I'm only just down the road" she said.
Ok so after driving 4 miles with this delightful creature, she starts stroking my leg and asking if I ever wondered what it would be like to be with a woman as she thought " I had such a vibrant energy?" WTF?
She's a lawyer now, and I honestly think she has forgotten about this embarrassing incident, but I have not!
Nor that she was peddling knock off vodka to all the corner shops.

When I see he on the Lectern I just cringe. Plus her mother used to be my manager.

ExH and I got divorced 10 years ago, very soon after he started a relationship with a very close friend of mine.

They've been married for 8 years, the day before they got married with a lavish society wedding we started sleeping with each other and it's still going on now.

I'm happily single and it totally suits my needs.

I would never want her to find out as a) the sex is amazing and b) it's the sweetest revenge ever

Jam, that makes me so sad. Can't you do any better? Revenge? Time to move on, how can you cheapen yourself to that extent, get some therapy.( you're the victim my love) He will always be the winner.
What century are we living in, will someone remind me.

what is the kitty / tennis singer thing?

Arethey two peopleor just one?

Is one person the thing you have at the seaside,that people can fall off?

I had sex with my exh on the couch in his new flat (in which at the time he told me he was renting a room) after we split. A few weeks later I found out he was in a relationship (and still is) with the woman whose flat it is. I'm fairly sure that they were together at the time (she was on night shift that night and we had gone for a drink to talk a few things over, stupidly I got a bit drunk and let him take me home ) so he cheated on his gf with his wife It's not a secret in my circle of friends as I don't do secrets but I'm positive exh gf has no idea! More fool her, he cheated on me at least 15 times that I now know of but I'm guessing that number is very wrong

up because it suits me at this time, it's all on my terms.

I'm happily single, kids are in their late teens / early 20's off doing their own thing. Saves me the hassle of the dating game.

I know him, he knows me. He's seen me give birth 4 times, he's seen the very best (and worst) of me.

If I hadn't of moved on I would be a sorry mess, rocking in the corner. I'm not, I get on with my own life, have a wonderful social circle and a great job. We live in different counties, over 100 miles apart at my instigation.
It's him that travels to see me, like I say, on my terms.

Yes part of it is revenge, she was a predator who deserves everything she gets IMHO.

If and when a relationship is on the horizon (I'm not looking) I will end what is going on with EXH, until then, it will continue as before.

Nd for obvious reasons.

Before my now dh got together we both hung around with a big group of mutual friends. After one night that involved quite heavy drinking dh had to be escorted home by one of our friends. This "friend" indicated heavily to a few of the group that something had happened between him and my now dh on that night. We collectively dismissed it as fiction as our friend was inclined to blemish the truth and we didn't believe him.

When my now dh and I did get together I happened to mention this in passing to dh one night (in a ha ha what a prat he is kinda way) and dh then broke down and told me he was sexually assaulted that night by our friend. I believed him (and I still believe him now) I tried to encourage dh to go to the police about it but he refused. He made me promise never to tell anyone which I have kept until now. Dh will not discuss it ever since that night he told me.

Our "friend" drifted away from the group soon after (which is good because I'm not sure I wouldn't have done something really stupid like deck him one) but I could never talk or trust that man again.