Hi all! I hope everybody is well and time for an update I think! So, we now have OW flouting the court order, we have Mr WT finally co-operating with disclosure and although I have had a quick flick through, I haven't yet had a proper delve into the statements which I will do next week. Then onto a new questionnaire and preps in readiness for the next hearing in January. Mr WT described this as "all the stress and misery continuing", indeed, all caused by himself. He has behaved rather strangely of late, sent me an email saying that he realised he had treated me badly, had behaved like a c**t and that I didn't deserve such cruelty. He then goes on to be really cruel again. They can't help themselves can they? Onto the child hearing, that is in 3 weeks time. I have sent a statement and my acknowledgement to the court...Mr WT has been bombarding Cafcass with emails, "evidence", private correspondence between us. He has been harassing DS's school. He has also harassed the HV's who have recently been very helpful after police referrals. I am not sure if he is actually strengthening his case. Anyway, I am still waiting for my first Cafcass interview prior to the first directions hearing. I just want what is right for my son, what is going to keep him safe and secure. Let's hope we can all agree on that.
So, onto happier things, I am sure WWK won't mind me saying that she has visited me while on her working travels...we had a lovely time with a gorgeous dinner cooked by DD. It is strange to meet somebody in the flesh, especially as we have essentially "met" via this forum and because we both married complete tossers. However, I find it so very comforting and heartening that we can offer eachother support/wine/a bed/food/hugs whatever is needed to get through. Just lovely. So, WWK, thank you for a fab evening, you're lovely and I am so glad to know you . Oh, I forgot to mention, WWK had a fleeting glimpse of Mr WT in the flesh. There are acres of it these days .