Who's Desperate and Awful Now....Story of My Divorce from Mr WT...Part 2....

[MrsC1969HJ]

Having reached a 1000 posts, I can hardly believe we are moving onto Thread 2...I have had the most amazing ongoing support from so many and I will always be eternally grateful. Link to Thread 1 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2030270-PLEASE-HELP-DESPERATE-AND-AWFUL-DIVORCE?

Bloated and yellow? Oh dear. You may inherit all his worldly goods quite soon. Although if the oesophageal varices let go, you won't be wanting the carpets.

I'm not a nice man.

oesophageal varices what a lovely turn of phrase you have, disgrace , I like the cut of your gib, I feel you're a very nice man,

Alec Gilroy and Bet Lynch, not so nice people, karma is out to bite them both on the ass, lovely MrsC , sending you all good things, x

Disgrace, you sound like a very nice man to me. That did make me laugh!

Hobbit...can you believe this? I am absolutely sure that the next court hearing is not going to end well...madness!

Ooooh that does sound promising, Disgrace!

Consider geekery on standby, MrsC!

Brother is doing much, much better! I think it was important that I was NOT around and he had to do it all on his own. He has an excellent team and a good plan for the future. Thankfully, it includes dealing with issues that should have been dealt with decades ago! I also learnt a new phrase that I'll have to remember; "Be a support, not a crutch!". Thanks to MrsC, acat, and any others who sent up prayers or strength.

Oh dear. More fuckwitterybuggishness from Mr WT. He just doesn't get it. "Excuse me, M'Lud, but remember that order you made? Well I, in my infinite legal wisdom, have decided that it was NOT an order, but more in the way of a 'suggestion' by you, and so I'm not going to abide by it. I do hope that doesn't present a problem for you, Yer Honour". Phfffttt!!!

Cars, micros, laptops; the miracles (and banes) of modern life. I'll add a caravan awning that suffered a massive failure while driving 60 mph in a 30mph head-wind on the Kansas prairie. Thank God for duct tape! It'll have to be replaced but at least we can keep moving! Too bad you couldn't use it to mend your items!! LOL.

Best of luck to 'TheformidableMissC'. I know GCSEs are a big deal in UK education.

Crikey! KoKo Mrs C, wishing you the best x

That's fab news, Across! I'm sure it wasn't easy to step away, but it sounds like it was the best move you could have made!

Well done, Across - you have been so strong and now you are seeing the results. It must have been one of the hardest things you ever did, but was it ever the right one!

Hi lovelies, I just wanted to check in and have a rant/moan after dragging myself away from a thread about an OW complaining that her cocklodger hasn't divorced his wife and married her. WWK told me to bloody well leave it or I'd be banned...so I am .

Anyway, having posted in legal, I have had some lovely advice from a fellow MN'er and am preparing myself for the fact we will end up at a Final Hearing. I absolutely refuse to stress about this. I will just go with it. It is not me that has screwed this process from start to finish and I have done everything I should have. I will go for costs though because I will need a barrister for this one. Onwards and upwards....anyway...

So, had a run in with Mr WT today. He has had some additional contact as I have been attending an ASD course every Thursday afternoon. He refused to do it with me so rather than pay a childminder, I gave him the job of childcare. He is a tosser. Anyway, it appears he has been feeding DS Macdonalds at every available opportunity and yesterday he had it twice. I texted him last night and said if he can't provide DS with decent meal I would provide a packed lunch as I didn't want him to end up with type II diabetes or weight issues. I also said I didn't want him to look like his father (who has gained about 5 stone and on a 5ft 10 frame, 18-19 stone doesn't really reflect good health). He came back and said "no we don't want him being fat like his parents"...fuck the hell off!!!! Talk about reflection. I should point out that this is not a fat hating issue, I don't care what anybody does with their weight that is their choice, but I do care very much about my son eating that sort of shit six times a week which has recently been the case. So, he continued to rant on at me in a way he hasn't done for a very long time...I imagine he needed to sound off for some reason or another. I think he should redirect that rubbish at the person he's living with...not me!! Anyway we're off for the weekend to my cousin in London so looking forward to a change of scene before the stresses of the next fortnight take hold...court coming up again so hang on tight!

Hope everybody is OK, especially you Across, thanks so much for the update...so glad things are sounding positive and trip going well! Lots of love to you xxx

Hello MrsC WT does t sound lime a happy bunny, does he? Although perhaps looks lime one who has snuffled all the Easter eggs haha.

Have a good weekend away, and do call into the Bar sometime, it's always good to hear from you x

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What Ho Mrs!

I saw your message, couldnt reply thanks to stupid phone, but tbh I was a bit confused. I assumed that Pauline had had her hair cut when I saw the picture :o

I suggest the next time he kicks off you say exactly that to him! " Err, sorry love, not my problem anymore. I suggest you talk to the person you are living with and not the person you shat on from a great height, word to the wise, I am not going to be very sympathetic!"

Thinking of you.

You know what I suggested at the end of May? H has got a new job, selfish git , so that week off is now not happening :(

Thanks, we're having a lovely time, especially now that I can relax a bit.

I agree with others, the minute he starts in I'd just calmly say "I had to listen to your verbal diarrhoea for XX years. I don't have to listen to it now. Save it for Miss Piggy (OW)".

So, you'll end up in court. A pain, but I suspect that you suspected it'd be that way in the end and you'll have the incomparable WWK to lean on. He's just so stupid that he can't see that it would be to his advantage in the long run to work things out without court. A real case of cutting off his nose to spite his face. Fool.

Just clocking in to see how you are MrsC (also your page disappears off pages I'm on if I don't post every so often). Not long now and hoping you and he get all you deserve Will WWK and the pineapple be accompanying you?

A song for you I just posted in the Bar as appropriate for you too

Across so glad your brother is doing better

Hey MrsC! How is court prep going? Am already looking forward to the inevitable bollocking MrWT will subjected to in court on Fri

OMG is it this Friday? I hope you have your pineapple ready for insertion by the judge.

I will have everything crossed for you. Which might be difficult since I'm planning to take the family to Colchester Zoo, but if I have to negotiate those hills with crossed legs and crossed eyes, I'll do it.

Good luck for this week.

The image of pointy hopping through a zoo cross-legged is both &

Wishing you the very best for Friday, my lovely, just want this fuckwittery to end for you, you and your family deserve some peace from all this stress. They are an evil pair of idiots and I am sure you are well prepared.

Here you go MrsC - hefted Hobbit's steel balls over from the bar for you. They worked for her and she lends them out! If all else fails, unstrap 'em and.... not advocating violence in any way --

Jess is wearing her steel balls as well to show her support MrsC , KOKO xx

Best of luck for Friday x Here's hoping for a total shafting for Mr Wt and the fragrant OW.

Oh yes! Best of luck and a good supply of pineapples!!!

Another just to say good luck for Friday and may justice be done again

Coming out of the lurking cupboard in my hot pants to wave my pineapple shaped pom poms for Friday. Go go go MrsC!