Re my brother and his wife.
they've been married 2 years and together 3 or 4 years. She has a very demanding job as manager of a gallery but with local gov funding (involvement).
Anyway she works regularly up to 9-10pm every night and a lot of weekends, not every weekend but a few - public gallery so demands are there. she was promoted last year, they said they'd get someone in to replace her old post but as local gov etc haven't done this yet.
She's outgoing/assertive generally but in this case not. There are evenings (last Thursday when I stayed over) where she is home at 11pm.
She says she can't talk or it won't do any good her talking to someone senior about this.
Her mother (a secondary school A level teacher) thinks she is overworked but also overworks herself (brother's DW).
My brother is getting increasingly stressed about it all. His wife is TTC (very recent scenario though).
My mum (sister in laws MIL) thinks DSIL should see a life coach so she can talk about balances etc.
Yeah I know its none of our business their marriage etc but when/if my brother has enough - he's a photographer but in final year of degree at film school - and it ends then it will be our business! They also seem to have a good marriage otherwise and get on well, it's just her job which is creating this big rift!
thanks for reading! 