Does he like me?

[TequilaItMakesMeHappy]

Last week a bunch of us went out after work. We work as engineers and subcontract some of the work to other firms. Some of them came out with us. One of the sub firms always sends the same 2 guys, and they've been working with us for a few years. One of the guys (G1) I'd never spoken to, the other (G2) is very outgoing so always have a bit of a chat and giggle with him.

Anyway, in the pub I was with my friends, and noticed that whenever I looked over in G1's direction he was looking at me. Still didn't really speak much to him as I didn't know him at all. I was chatting to his mate a lot, and we all played pool together.

As people started going their separate ways, G2 announced he was going into town and asked if I wanted to join him and G1. I was having a good night and wasn't ready for going home so agreed.

Once we were out we had a few drinks together, then G2 disappeared to another part of the bar (on the pull!!) and I sat chatting to G1 for quite a while. I don't really remember how it came about, but he was telling me I was stunning, quite a catch etc and, surprised, I rubbished it. He was then really surprised that I didn't see it (drink talking and all that?!!)

Anyway, we carried on talking and our heads were very close together (loud music etc), so he said something and I tilted my ear towards his mouth to hear properly, and as I turned back our noses brushed each others. Next thing, he kissed me. The kiss went on quite a long time and built in passion. We then got more drinks, had a little look for G2 and then went back to sitting chatting and kissed again. It was an amazing kiss, real knee trembler, and given that he says he's shy with women, really knew how to push my buttons! (Btw, I believe him when he says he's shy around women as he was blushing when I first spoke to him that night).

Once back at work, he got my number from a guy I work with, and since then we've text each other a few times a day. We talked about our night out and he said it seemed the right thing to do at the time, but was naughty and he shouldn't have done it. Obviously its a bit of a bad move given we work together.

So I have no idea whether he likes me or if it was just a case of being drunk and convenient. And I know it probably doesn't matter because we work together and it wouldn't go any further, but I just want to satisfy my own curiosity! I could ask him outright, but I think he'd be too embarrassed.

A grown man who uses the word "naughty" is a massive red flag. Don't you just find him really irritating OP?

I get the feeling you don't get much male attention, or at least nice male attention (leers and looking at boobs is not something I'd personally welcome, as opposed to being asked out for dinner). Quite often married or attached men have come onto me, they try to engage you in chat and if you are desperate enough, they will presumably take it to the next stage. If you are stupid enough to keep it secret or not notice they are attached, then presumably they will take the risk of shagging you as well.

I find them incredibly annoying. Irritating as hell. Why don't you, OP?

And the other thing, (and sorry to all the engineers out there) but about 90% of engineers are *odd". DH is an engineer, my two exes are engineers, and they can be odd, and their workmates can be odd. Especially with women.

Just tell the sleaze to feck off. Problem solved.

Tequila - If you haven't posted about these two guys before, saying how the two men fancied a threesome with you (and you might be up for it) ... there's a strong possibility a Mumsnetter has had the pair of them already. (Are they structural engineers?) Or was it you before, with two different men, and you just can't help coming on to your subcontractors?

That's right! I remember that thread too. It was really sleazy and it also involved engineers...

Feeling distinctly spooked now.

I thought it was an update at first.

Interesting < strokes chin >

Were big boobz a feature of that 3 way situation too ?

Hmmn, my imagination is telling me perhaps these threads are written by a male engineer, talking about his fantasy.

Hence the constant, and rather odd, references to big boobs. Most women I know who don't appreciate their boobs being stared at don't constantly mention their big boobs. Most of them also manage to hide them on a night out with colleagues.

Stranger things have happened.

Knee trembler. Sad git indeed.