Well last weekend he text me while I was boarding the plane to Dublin, he asked what I was doing I said I was getting onto a flight to Dublin for 2 days. Then whatsapped him Monday morning, he saw the messages and ignored them.
Heard nothing till this afternoon, him asking me "....how was Dublin..."; "What was Dublin all about.."; ".....did you get satisfied..." So I told him to cut the crap, say what he means, I'm way too old for silly mind games, if he wants to say or ask me something he needs to grow some balls and ask me directly and that he's full of shit and I'm not going to tolerate his shitty behaviour and if he decides he wants to be with me, he should be making more of an effort to be spending time with me etc.
He replied that "...it seems you've made my mind up for me and I don't think I deserve this tirade!"
I reiterated that from day one I've told him I want to be with him, he however seems to have changed his mind and I now felt like he's playing mind games and he's frustrating me, I told him it's either you want me and to be with me or you don't, VERY SIMPLE! I again reiterated what my expectations of a relationships were bla bla bla, told him to KEEP IT REAL!
Only then did he communicate the potentially life changing event that occurred earlier in the week resulting in his silence.
We then cleared the air, discussed what it meant for me/him/us........